I'm a socially awkward nerd: Do I have aspergers?

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Mdyar
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18 Oct 2011, 1:15 pm

Give up schizophrenia, pal.

I dont know what exactly can curb the obsessive/ unrelenting nature of this drive. I get the sense if you read heavy on this subject, you get that urge to post your new idea somewhere.

The intent is to discover, and your MO is doing it this way. It appears to bother the board, so I dont' know if you can just take your mind of this completely and indulge into a hobby, say math, and let your psychologist work this out.

Once off the track, the new obsession takes control, and you wonder how in the world this last obsession was such a 911.

It's a nutty unrelenting loop.



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18 Oct 2011, 1:33 pm

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I am getting very tired of all the stereotyping that you do to try to "fit" into the spectrum. It really is insulting and your questions are stupid like beyond your IQ stupid. You ask crap like, "If I do this, do all Aspies do this?" You act like you cannot understand the concept of a spectrum. You and I are so far away from each other in how we see the world that we may as well be on a different planet. That doesn't mean that we both are not ASD. Stop insulting me and all of us who are labeled with your insipid posts. They hurt people and they are very troll-like. I do not excuse this.


You know, I seem to have this problem with some women, in general. They seem to read way too far into my posts and assume I have intentions I don't have.

My only intention was satirizing how almost every socially awkward nerd thinks he has AS and I WAS NOT ridiculing nor "stereotyping" the average AS person. The fact is, I probably also belong to this group ("socially awkward nerd") and I still speculate that I might have something related to autism, so I think it's fair to make fun of my own kind.


BS... This has NOTHING to do with me being woman or reading too much into anything. It has to do with your thoughtless actions/posts. I have been in high tech for more than 20 years and worked side-by-side with thousands of socially ret*d/awkward nerds. Not a ONE of them has ever spoken about ASD to me. Not one. Again you generalize and make light of the disorder part of this disorder. and I am tired of your excuses... ASD is a real issue for a lot of people. Try to respect that part of it while you are making "light" of the stereotypes. In other words... Stop it already!

Really, really smart people are both socially awkward and weird too. It isn't the same thing. You post nearly 9 posts a day to this board and it is the same dribble. The same questions about your observations about stuff that nobody can help you with... This stuff is actually documented all over the place if you took some time to read. Go off and read or better yet.... Accept that you are just you and figure out an obsession that you can use to give back to society instead of ruffle feathers. It is possible for even socially awkward people to contribute to society...



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18 Oct 2011, 1:59 pm

In 2004, I wanted to change my name to "Integral", but I did not, because I did not want to do the paperwork and associated rigmaroles of name-changing. In my vision, I was going to sign all documents with the integral sign.

For books about autism, I would avoid any written by an NT. Books written by NTs about autism provide NT interpretations of autism that may or may not have anything to do with how autism is experienced by an autistic person.



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18 Oct 2011, 2:33 pm

Many nerds are HFA's that would never, ever, Trevor, receive a diagnosis of AS......

They are not affected enough by autism

Maybe when they are older, burnt out, brain infected encephalitics.... and functioning levels drop, will they receive a diagnosis, maybe

If they suffered as children.... they are have still been auties the whole time by my reckoning

But I guess driving confused nerds off this site, with a slap in the face, has its merits :lol:

It seems to be a common activity with some here :wink:

oops....TOM.... I cant have it!! !



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18 Oct 2011, 3:28 pm

swbluto wrote:
I'm currently getting memory and IQ tested through a proctor who's evaluating me for ADHD (I don't think I have ADHD, btw -- I did far too well on the working memory subtests of the WAIS)


I really feel like further confuzzling you.

Because there are these four subscores in my report (WISC) out of which one should be that working memory score. I can't tell which one exactly because the report isn't in English.

Anyway, I'll not tell you it's possible (perhaps kind of unusual) to have un-medicated "considerable" (=that's just what the diagnosticians called it) ADHD and manage to score in the 141-145 range on working memory index.


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18 Oct 2011, 4:58 pm

kfisherx wrote:
I have been in high tech for more than 20 years and worked side-by-side with thousands of socially ret*d/awkward nerds. Not a ONE of them has ever spoken about ASD to me. Not one.


You think an ordinary nerd with AS has a good chance of making it past HR during the hiring process? You're funny.

(Note, you're an exception because you're obviously not an ordinary nerd, you're an extraordinary one. But just because you have technological and verbal prowess doesn't mean you're not wrong sometimes, like when you guess my intentions and you argue with me)



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18 Oct 2011, 5:02 pm

No you're just an incredibly annoying troll who continually spews sh*t on the forums to annoy others and seems to have not much else to do



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18 Oct 2011, 5:07 pm

Sora wrote:
swbluto wrote:
I'm currently getting memory and IQ tested through a proctor who's evaluating me for ADHD (I don't think I have ADHD, btw -- I did far too well on the working memory subtests of the WAIS)


I really feel like further confuzzling you.

Because there are these four subscores in my report (WISC) out of which one should be that working memory score. I can't tell which one exactly because the report isn't in English.

Anyway, I'll not tell you it's possible (perhaps kind of unusual) to have un-medicated "considerable" (=that's just what the diagnosticians called it) ADHD and manage to score in the 141-145 range on working memory index.


Lol, confuzzle me any time you like.

But... I'm still confused, what???

I'm assuming your last paragraph means exactly the opposite of it what it says because there's some kind of sarcastic tone that I can't hear through the screen. I'm guessing you're one of the "exceptions" you mention?

Did you take the wechsler memory test? They also have a working memory index that's measured differently from the IQ test. I'm guessing the "working memory" index of the WAIS might be flawed for a particular type of ADHD person with visuospatial abilities, as I noticed I did fairly well precisely by arranging the numbers in a 3x3 mental grid in my mind (And on a number line), which I'm guessing is a particular advantage that only a few people have who might not actually have "great" working memory in other areas of life. Especially working memory associated with "meaning" (Which is what actually seems to characterize the attention deficit part of ADHD.).



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18 Oct 2011, 5:09 pm

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You think an ordinary nerd with AS has a good chance of making it past HR during the hiring process? You're funny.


Plenty do.



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18 Oct 2011, 5:09 pm

nemorosa wrote:
swbluto wrote:
You think an ordinary nerd with AS has a good chance of making it past HR during the hiring process? You're funny.


Plenty do.


There's hope yet that I can work for intel!



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18 Oct 2011, 5:11 pm

he may be paid to do what he does.....



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18 Oct 2011, 5:14 pm

nemorosa wrote:
swbluto wrote:
You think an ordinary nerd with AS has a good chance of making it past HR during the hiring process? You're funny.


Plenty do.


Btw, when we're talking about nerds and AS, we're talking about 1% of the nerd population. Even if they have an admission rate that's optimistically half that of NT nerds, we're talking about an AS subpopulation that's less than .5% of the workforce. You're talking about finding a unicorn and kxfisher is assuming she'll find a unicorn brave/stupid enough to show itself and risk getting shot. (I.e., getting sacked.)



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18 Oct 2011, 5:21 pm

Oh yeah, I borrowed Temple Grandin's book "Emergence Labeled Autism". I'm currently upto her fifth year and while my speech development seems somewhat similar to hers, I wasn't anywhere near as bratty as she was (Flinging poop everywhere, what the hell?). But, she doesn't actually have "aspergers", does she? She's just a classical case of autism which is noticeably worse than aspergers.



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18 Oct 2011, 5:23 pm

Why do I get the feeling I'm the only one here who understands that swbluto isn't being serious? I find these threads to be more hilarious than anything else.

And finding another special interest definitely helps. I hardly care about AS at all anymore.


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18 Oct 2011, 5:32 pm

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Why do I get the feeling I'm the only one here who understands that swbluto isn't being serious? I find these threads to be more hilarious than anything else.

And finding another special interest definitely helps. I hardly care about AS at all anymore.


hes not the only one :wink: