Do you have an active love life?

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I've never been in a relationship, I'm happy alone.

When i was like 16 i was asked on a date, but me being a social moron didn't realize it was a date. I thought it was just 2 friends going out, so i brought another friend along with me. Heh, she didn't ask me for another, lol.

Although, It'd be nice to have a companion, realistically i don't think i'll ever find anybody. Not because i'm ugly, but because 1) I'm asexual, have absolutely no interest in sex 2) I need alone time, and a lot of it.

Me and my husband have been together for ten years and he is very much like me so we get along in a kind of love/hate way. At times we are very sexually active and other times we don't even talk for weeks and maybe have sex once in a few months. Not because we are upset or anything it just doesn't occur to either of us. I think most NT people would not put up with a relationship that functioned like that but it works great for us and we usually are in sync with the others need to be clingy or distant.

Both. It varies.

I was never very good at developing my social skills so I don't really have relationships very often and they don't go well when I do.

no, i don't have an active love life. i had one night stands in my twenties, not too many of them, and i've given up on that ever since i got my cats. they're easeir to handle than humans. (unfortunately, they're both dead now, but i still don't feel the need for a boyfriend or anything like that.)
if i ever had a serious relationship i'll be frustrated by spending too much time with someone else. i always do when i try spending time with another person so i end up with no friends.