Ha wrote:
Why not a pet lizard instead of, say, deep breathing vs. a Xanax? Well, wouldn't it depend partly on if you want to keep your disability information secret with a pill tucked inside your purse or by deep breathing quietly so you don't stick out too much vs. petting an engaging animal to help make an invisible disability become visible to others in a socially appealing way?
There are also other factors that are involved besides trying to hide any problems you have. Animals require upkeep, and thats time and money. It's much cheaper to learn another self calming technique. Some people do not like having animals in the house, so that could limit social visits to people who do. I know that even though we have a snake, I wouldn't want a lizard in my house that wasn't in a cage of some sort, even if it were trained not to go anywhere and get lost. I also have dogs of my own, and other pets, and my dogs would react very aggresively toward another dog who came into the house, even if it were a service dog.
As for making a problem visable, that would be up to each person to decide. Why is it a bad thing to not put everything out there for others to know about? Or did you mean that it was? I don't tell people that I have AS, it's not their business, and I'm perfectly content with them thinking I'm just wierd.
I suppose what I'm saying also is that something permenant, like a service dog, wouldn't help the person in overcoming their anxiety, it would only help them deal with it on an instance by instance basis. I could see having one for anxiety in the beginning, if theirs was so bad that they couldn't leave home, etc, and then "graduating" and using something easier, and then keep stepping down until the anxiety is rare, and when it occurs, they have ways to deal with it. It seems like a patch, rather than a fix.
Frances