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28 Mar 2012, 4:36 pm

I space out all the time. I will be eating and all of the sudden I just stare at nothing for 30 seconds. Its like the world pauses. I do it when Im eating, watching a movie, in the car, playing a game, in the shower, or typing. It doesnt matter what Im doing. But I cant do it when I want to though. Like if I was at the mall and it was stressful I cant pause the world as much as I wish I could. And when I do space out its like I dont even know Im doing it. Why do I space out? Any one else do that?



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28 Mar 2012, 4:38 pm

Every day. I "wake up" and wonder how long I've been doing it.



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28 Mar 2012, 4:54 pm

I zone out frequently, but in my case a lot of it is due to exhaustion caused by my other health problems. :(


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28 Mar 2012, 4:57 pm

It depends what you mean by space out.

I do, but mentally I am pretty busy. What is going on in your mind when you space out? I sometimes get lost for up to an hour at time if given the opportunity.

I've always done this, which has led to some awkward problems. Such as being exceptionally slow at getting tasks done when I am on my own.

I've got a lot worse since I cut out caffeine.

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28 Mar 2012, 5:00 pm

When I zone out I disconnect from the external world and focus more on my own thoughts and imaginings.


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28 Mar 2012, 5:09 pm

I always space out. I do it constantly. I'm so introverted that I basically live in my mind. I've done it my whole life. Sometimes I do it and people are probably looking at me weirdly but I don't realize how I probably look half the time. In waiting rooms I usually prefer to space out than read magazines. When I'm waiting for someone I'm perfectly content sitting on a couch or leaning against a wall staring into space and thinking about things.



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28 Mar 2012, 5:09 pm

oh my most awkward space out.. I spaced out in the locker room at school, it looked like I was staring at another boys "equipment", I wasn't, he thought I was and he called me out on it.

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28 Mar 2012, 5:11 pm

Jtuk wrote:
oh my most awkward space out.. I spaced out in the locker room at school, it looked like I was staring at another boys "equipment", I wasn't, he thought I was and he called me out on it.

Jason


Yeah, I've caught peoples eyes in public and they looked at me like I was rudely staring at them or something but I was just spacing out into my mind really.



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28 Mar 2012, 5:12 pm

lostgirl1986 wrote:
Jtuk wrote:
oh my most awkward space out.. I spaced out in the locker room at school, it looked like I was staring at another boys "equipment", I wasn't, he thought I was and he called me out on it.

Jason


Yeah, I've caught peoples eyes in public and they looked at me like I was rudely staring at them or something but I was just spacing out into my mind really.

I almost got physically attacked by a classmate because of that.

Hard wake-up call.



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28 Mar 2012, 5:15 pm

Uprising wrote:
lostgirl1986 wrote:
Jtuk wrote:
oh my most awkward space out.. I spaced out in the locker room at school, it looked like I was staring at another boys "equipment", I wasn't, he thought I was and he called me out on it.

Jason


Yeah, I've caught peoples eyes in public and they looked at me like I was rudely staring at them or something but I was just spacing out into my mind really.

I almost got physically attacked by a classmate because of that.

Hard wake-up call.


oh he did pick a fight with me outside school sometime after that. for once I stood up for myself and won. So that's why he started that, oh well the joys of remembering so much is you have a lifetime to figure it out.

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28 Mar 2012, 5:18 pm

I remember in grade 3 I used to space out while we were supposed to do spelling. I'd fidget with my pencil and daydream for half an hour until spelling was over and my teacher gave it to me for homework. I'm surprised she didn't intervene and make me get to work because I sat right in front of her desk in the back of the row. I loved that teacher. I loved how she put us in rows of desks instead of groups, I loved how she wrote a To Do list numbered on the blackboard every single day and I really liked the way she taught.



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28 Mar 2012, 5:26 pm

Oh, I'm sorry -- did you say something? I wasn't paying attention. :P

Seriously, though. I do this *all* the time. My space outs have more than one form. I may become mentally "stuck" on one aspect of a situation and keep on mulling it over while everyone else present has moved on to something else, and I get "lost" on my different mental wavelength. As a result of this, I don't respond appropriately to a given situation, and others around me take notice.
At other times, things just slow down for me, and information from my surroundings just seems to reach me more slowly. My processing speed and reaction time is significantly slower than the average person as it is, so when all of this gets even slower than my usual, it's a real problem. To other people, I just appear to be looking at what's going on, but not responding to the situation. That can make it look like I'm just lazy, like I don't want to be bothered when in fact my brain just hasn't yet put together what's right in front of me.
I also have the traditional space outs, where I "leave" mentally for a while, and just lose myself in my thoughts. I am able to suppress these space outs when the situation calls for it by forcing my brain to abandon its default "inward mode," and to focus my external environment. The effort that requires is exhausting to sustain though, and I'm tired all the time as a result.
So, yes, I know all about space outs. Spaced out is pretty much my default setting. :)
I'm off to play some lumosity (online brain training program) in a continued quest to stimulate my brain to function more effectively. I've been training daily since late November, and I'm hoping that I'll eventually see a positive difference in terms of my brain function. I haven't felt the payoff yet. :? I like to think changes are taking place whether I notice them or not.


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28 Mar 2012, 5:33 pm

OuterBoroughGirl wrote:
Oh, I'm sorry -- did you say something? I wasn't paying attention. :P

Seriously, though. I do this *all* the time. My space outs have more than one form. I may become mentally " stuck on one aspect of a situation and keep on mulling it over while everyone else present has moved on to something else, and I get "lost" on my different mental wavelength. As a result of this, I don't respond appropriately to a given situation, and others around me take notice.
At other times, things just slow down for me, and information from my surroundings just seems to reach me more slowly. My processing speed and reaction time is significantly slower than the average person as it is, so when all of this gets even slower than my usual, it's a real problem. To other people, I just appear to be looking at what's going on, but not responding to the situation. That can make it look like I'm just lazy, like I don't want to be bothered when in fact my brain just hasn't yet put together what's right in front of me.
I also have the traditional space outs, where I "leave" mentally for a while, and just lose myself in my thoughts. I am able to suppress these space outs when the situation calls for it by forcing my brain to abandon its default "inward mode," and to focus my external environment. The effort that requires is exhausting to sustain though, and I'm tired all the time as a result.
So, yes, I know all about space outs. Spaced out is pretty much my default setting. :)
I'm off to play some lumosity (online brain training program) in a continued quest to stimulate my brain to function more effectively. I've been training daily since late November, and I'm hoping that I'll eventually see a positive difference in terms of my brain function. I haven't felt the payoff yet. :? I like to think changes are taking place whether I notice them or not.


My brain processing speed to slower than the average person as well. Sometimes I'll space out if a person is talking to me if I'm bored or I'm nervous. When people are giving me instructions I tend to space out because an overwhelming amount of information and/or due to anxiety. I even space out when I'm reading if the environment is too distracting, I'll read the same page over and over again, maybe 10 times. When I read things I need to let it sink into my brain so I can process it. I can stare straight at the television and not absorb any of the information on tv, I have to actively try really hard to process information, whether I'm reading, watching television, listening to somebody talk or listening to music. It's one of my major learning disabilities.



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28 Mar 2012, 6:50 pm

All the time, M calls it me going away with the fairies, he's convinced that one day I won't come back!

I'm not blank though, usually I'm off into my own little world when I either can't or don't want to deal with the real one.



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28 Mar 2012, 7:07 pm

Spacing out is a daily occurance, especially when concentrating on an interest long enough, the brain seems to just say "nope no more" I lose focus and I feel weird the rest of the day. 


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28 Mar 2012, 7:17 pm

All the time. I'll just kind of stare off at something and not really notice anything.


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