What words are you unable to say?

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When I was young, "Thank you," "I'm sorry," and "excuse me," were all really hard for me (I'd usually just stand behind people awkwardly until they realised I was there and moved without my having to say anything. Even now, if I say it and they don't hear me, I'll just wait for them to get out of the way).
Thanking people over the phone for anything, especially calling specifically to convey gratitude is still really hard for me, and I'll just as soon write them a letter.
I also have trouble conveying sympathy, "I'm sorry your dog died/you got fired/he broke up with you" all sound very hollow and fake because I can never figure out what sort of emotion to put into it, and it makes me uncomfortable because I'm very aware of how flat it sounds... plus I don't handle emotional people well, which is another part of it.
Introductions are a nightmare. When people tell me their name then ask how I am, I'm never sure whether I'm supposed to answer the question or tell them my name, and can never think of anything to say afterwards to keep the conversation moving, so things fall flat within about thirty seconds. That's why I prefer board posts, none of that silly introduction nonsense
Oh, and I also hate the expression "get a wriggle on." My mom says it all the time (I'm a bit of a slowpoke) and it just makes my skin crawl. I want to break something every time I hear it.

refrigerador- all those R's to be trilled in the spanish way are too much for me and my stiff american tongue.

"Good morning". I despise saying this and I rarely say it.
Also, "I love you", I can't say it to relatives or parents, I can only say it to my cat and if I am in love to my bf.
I used to be terribly uncomfortable with saying "merry christmas" and " happy birthday" , "sorry for your loss" etc but now I can say them, but when I say them I say them as if I am a parrot or a robot.
Also anything that has to do with women who are pregnant, because I think that having children is pathetic, so I am finding it very hard to ask the questions they expect me to ask, like "when is it due" and "awwww" and "you'll be a great mommy".

As a parent I can say "I love you" to my children, and encourage them to say "thank you for dinner" but I can't say them to other adults or children, not even family. When I know someone is going to start running around saying how rude I am (based on past incidences), I will kind of mumble out the correct statement, but then they think I don't mean it. I ate your food, I made yum noises, isn't that enough? I'm very uncomfortable forcing more platitudes out.

It took me until my 20s to realise that people don't actually want to know how you are when they say, "How are you?"

Like others here, I can't say anything I don't genuinely feel or that I don't understand the point of. I also can't speak (or even type) a lot of slang. I feel weird saying things like sweet, g'day or cheers.

"I love you". But that's probably because my family just doesn't say that do each other. We are not very touchy-feely. Saying "I love you" just sounds so corny and insincere.

"Please" and "thank you". I still have a child-like defiance when it comes to basic manners like this. It sounds so forced to say them, but I still do because I know that is polite.

It has only been in the last couple of years that I've been able to start saying "Thank you". Even though I say it now (learning because I kept pissing people off and got told constantly that i was unthankful), it is still a very conscious thing that I have to make myself say (feels foreign to come out of my mouth).

Sometimes, I can get out a "happy birthday" but most of the time i don't think about it.

Holiday greetings rarely ever get out.

I do NOT like asking people about their well-being. Sigh...

I love you. It's tough to say.
Or, the C word

I'm quite bad for saying 'thank you' - this is largely down to situations like receiving something from someone as I'm always scared I've misread the situation and the item isn't really meant for me to keep - but thanks to a story about a little girl getting P's and Q's pinned to her dress every time she forgot to say please or thank you when I was little I'm a lot more conscious of being sure to say my P's & Q's

I can't do pleasantries very well, for example an old best friend of mine has just had a second baby, I found it VERY tough to say 'congratulations' and do that whole 'aw, he's so cute...what weight was he?' etc.

I can't use regional dialect - my family all speak broad Geordie (Newcastle-upon-Tyne accent/dialect), where as I don't, the accent I lack as I couldn't speak till I was 7 so had speech classes where in they teach Queens English not regional accent/dialect (I still can't pronounce the letter R), but the dialect I don't use as it just sounds awkward coming from my lips. I also can't do slang terms either - for example I say 'breasts' rather than slang terms like 'boobs', it's just uncomfortable for me to try to use any sort of casual language.

I can say 'Love you' effortlessly to my small children, and do so every day. To an adult, though...problems.

I'm absolutely terrible at greetings or introductions. I never feel right saying "Happy Birthday" or "Merry Christmas" to people, even those I know well. I very rarely call people by their names.

I also have a hard time when seeing someone's new baby. I don't feel right saying, "Aww, that's such a cute baby!" which I know is what they want to hear. Honestly, I can't say it unless I feel it and I've probably only seen 3 or 4 babies in my lifetime that I actually thought were cute so it just feels like a lie.

I have gotten pretty good at saying "thank you" to people, though. Not as in, "Thank you for the lovely dinner.I had a wonderful time." when at someone's house but I can easily say an immediate "thank you" to the cashier at the grocery store or when someone gives me something. It seems to always get a smile from them and kind of erases whatever other social blunders I just made. But, if I have to say it later, after the fact, it just sounds fake.

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