Outrageous asperger myths and stereotypes

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30 Nov 2010, 11:31 pm

Psychiatitst (after mentioning that I think I have AS) "You can't have that that's something diagnosed in children and there's no pill for that and this is a place that gives pills." Current Psychiatirist "Perhaps you have it" fast forward to a report to go back to college (that I needed) So you are diagnosed with Asperger's and a mood disorder right? Me: Yes.



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01 Dec 2010, 12:21 am

If you dont look autistic, you must not be autistic...I get this one alot
What am I supposed to look like????


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01 Dec 2010, 1:35 am

That all of us are "logical". That jealousy is a female trait aspies don't suffer from. That our intelligence is high. That we are clever and furthermore, more clever than NTs.


jojobean wrote:
If you dont look autistic, you must not be autistic...I get this one alot
What am I supposed to look like????


And this.



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01 Dec 2010, 4:34 am

'Outrageous Asperger myths and stereotypes', you say?

That one about how we all have penises is probably the worst, I reckon.



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01 Dec 2010, 1:44 pm

FarqyTheIndolent wrote:
'Outrageous Asperger myths and stereotypes', you say?

That one about how we all have penises is probably the worst, I reckon.


Most definatley.



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01 Dec 2010, 4:13 pm

The most absurd steretype I've come across relating to people whom are autistic, is that most autistic people are engineers and computer programmers..Unfortunately that is not completely accurate and wish that a certain party would quite saying such things as if that is the gospel truth..



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01 Dec 2010, 5:43 pm

I swear, people have no sense at all these days.
That myth about souls is a lie. I have 13!
But I do hate sports.
People should embrace their AS, others should drop dead
that is no myth.



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07 May 2012, 11:28 pm

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That we're fat, lazy frauds. One crazy Youtube chick did this whole video report on how all of us are just self-centered sexual predators who need to be locked up for society to be safe. I also heard something on how the majority of school shooters are supposedly on the autistic spectrum.

Oh, and I had a history teacher who asked if we heard voices.


Aw geez, voices? Wait, I'm not one to talk.....

But about the Youtube chick, I want to see this video for myself. I want to see if something that awful actually exists.

Maybe we need an Aspie Anti-Defamation League.



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07 May 2012, 11:39 pm

I once said to a girl that I know that I though everything would be so much easier if everybody in the world had AS. She had no idea that I had it.

She said: "Yeah right, then we would all be like... (She then crossed her eyes, made her face look disfigured and rolled her head in circles and made a low humming sound)".


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07 May 2012, 11:44 pm

I've also heard that we're all blatantly inappropriate and know-it-allish for fun. Like, if someone said "Cactuses" I would correct them and say "They're called Cacti", not because I'm trying to show off or anything, but it genuinely bothers me when someone uses incorrect grammar.


And then there's the stereotype that we're notoriously bad at things like texting. Like, 8 words a minute bad. Not because we're bad at typing on a tiny phone, but because we have to type out every word in proper English in a text.

And finally, the stereotype that we will wander aimlessly around stores for hours when we've split up from a group. I find that people in my family believe I'm having fun and want something to spend my money on. HOWEVER, it is quite the opposite for the Great Oresama. I will wander around aimlessly through a store because I'm looking for the person or people I separated from. And often, I forget what they're wearing or even sometimes what they look like (Scary!).



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07 May 2012, 11:56 pm

Ingz wrote:
I once said to a girl that I know that I though everything would be so much easier if everybody in the world had AS. She had no idea that I had it.

She said: "Yeah right, then we would all be like... (She then crossed her eyes, made her face look disfigured and rolled her head in circles and made a low humming sound)".



Ugh. Yeah. People either treat me like I'm completely stupid and like a small child. Or they treat me like I should've gotten a PhD in Astrophysics by now.



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08 May 2012, 1:33 am

My mother is a curebie and even now that I live on my own at 25, she still likes to try and force "helpful advice" on me. Her most recent suggestion was that ASD would go away if I exercised more.

And my favorite: "But you're normal!"



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08 May 2012, 1:51 am

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I don't know if I'm actually Aspie or not, but I do have a sense of humor. Although mine tends to be really tasteless sometimes.


Oh, god, mine too.

One popular in my family: "Why did the monkey fall from the tree?" *pause* "Because it was dead."

^BAHAHAHAHA!! !! !


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08 May 2012, 1:56 am

Someone told me once that AS people "have no empathy." I don't think that's true. It seems like a lot of people on here have empathy. It's not like psychopathy.



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08 May 2012, 2:04 am

Zinia wrote:
Someone told me once that AS people "have no empathy." I don't think that's true. It seems like a lot of people on here have empathy. It's not like psychopathy.


ugh I hate this one!! ! I'm EXTREMELY empathic, to the point that someone I don't even know can be upset and I'm in tears without even knowing why! However, I don't know how to express SYMPATHY in a way that would be considered "appropriate".


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08 May 2012, 3:31 am

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Not going to try to read all these so some may be duplicates:

- That all autistic people who can use words in some form or have any obvious talent must be "Asperger's", "mild", "high functioning", and all that stereotypes about those words imply.

- That autistic people can be accurately lined up from mild to severe or high functioning to low functioning and have it make any sense at all

- That autistic people's differences from the norm are all or even mostly about social skills

- That if someone deemed as "HFA" or "AS" has a particular problem, then surely the reason some people get classified as "LFA" is because that problem is more severe for them (or that those labeled "LFA" always have more severe problems in any given area than those labeled "HFA" or "AS")

- That only people diagnosed with non-AS autism are really autistic

- That autistic people always have a particular ability pattern involving finding body language and intonation difficult to understand while (if considered high functioning anyway) finding words easier to understand. And that none of us find the exact opposite to be true, or switch between the two.

- That the Internet always is a good place for autistic people to meet so we don't need to deal with body language

- That autistic people's feelings about being autistic are tied to what kind or degree of difficulties we have fitting into "normal" life. So for instance someone who likes being autistic must be only mildly impaired compared to someone who doesn't. {I don't like trying to rate us from mild to severe in any case but it always ticks me off listening to people with way closer to typical lives than me by most standards tell me that I must be milder than them because they hate being autistic and I like being autistic.}

- That people designated as low functioning are defective and inferior while people considered high functioning are just different and part of human diversity.

I know I'm quoting something old, but I just think this quote is brilliant. I agree especially about the difference between HFA and LFA being stereotyped the way this user phrased, I've seen it thrown around (not necessarily here)


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