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13 Dec 2011, 2:11 am

Right, but I suspect this has more to do with parents who do not know how to deal with their child and the diagnosis more than looking for a reason to let the child get away with anything or trying to blame something else for what is a poor upbringing.



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13 Dec 2011, 10:49 am

Also, nobody's mentioned yet that sometimes people use 'spectrumite' for someone on the autistic spectrum, not specifying what diagnosis. (I'm sure I do sometimes, and I've seen others do so on here too).



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13 Dec 2011, 11:59 am

Tuttle wrote:
Also, nobody's mentioned yet that sometimes people use 'spectrumite' for someone on the autistic spectrum, not specifying what diagnosis. (I'm sure I do sometimes, and I've seen others do so on here too).


That's good actually! :D I think I might start using that one. Thanks Tuttle.


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13 Dec 2011, 1:05 pm

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Everyone just calls me an as*hole.


Or a b*tch, but yeah ;)
Maybe it's a personal preference? The one I see the most is Aspie, but I'm in no way saying that is the only nickname. I say call yourself what you want and what makes you feel comfortable!



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13 Dec 2011, 2:32 pm

I never really liked the term aspie, mostly because of these guys

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I don't like being likened to the puss caterpillar or "asp" I've been trying to put together an acronym to refer to people with AS, but I think it's best not to mention it unless you know who you're talking to or about really well, then perhaps you wouldn't need a nickname for it.



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13 Dec 2011, 2:42 pm

lilbuddah wrote:
I never really liked the term aspie, mostly because of these guys

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I don't like being likened to the puss caterpillar or "asp" I've been trying to put together an acronym to refer to people with AS, but I think it's best not to mention it unless you know who you're talking to or about really well, then perhaps you wouldn't need a nickname for it.


Properly asp is a type of snake, the one that bit Cleopatra. I like snakes. When I was like four years old I wanted my uncle to name my worm "Asp" in the original worms game, but I said "ass" instead and he refused because it was a bad word. I didn't get it, but eventually I discovered that they were different words.


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13 Dec 2011, 3:00 pm

Ahh well I'm in England, we don't get many snakes over here. 'sides, If I ask anyone I know what an asp is they'll go straight to call of frakking duty.



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13 Dec 2011, 5:42 pm

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Most here, including myself, call them "auties".
I say "Aspies" for people with Asperger's, and "Auties" for those with classic autism or PDD-NOS, but regardless of diagnoses, I call everyone on the spectrum "Autistic".



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13 Dec 2011, 5:47 pm

lilbuddah wrote:
Ahh well I'm in England, we don't get many snakes over here. 'sides, If I ask anyone I know what an asp is they'll go straight to call of frakking duty.
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13 Dec 2011, 5:52 pm

SyphonFilter wrote:
Sparx wrote:
Most here, including myself, call them "auties".
I say "Aspies" for people with Asperger's, and "Auties" for those with classic autism or PDD-NOS, but regardless of diagnoses, I call everyone on the spectrum "Autistic".


But 'autistic' is an adjective and 'aspie' and 'autie' are nouns. They're not really comparable because they're different parts of speech. (That's why I use 'spectrumite' for an autistic person 'cause I don't like the phrase "autistic person")



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11 Jun 2012, 2:01 am

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My pet peeve, again. Sorry. I would be called "PDD-NOS"-y. Ugly as it is. :x

(and unfair)


I think "Autie" is just right, "Aussie" is someone from Australia.

In Hungary "Autist" (autista) is simply referring to a person who has classic autism.


I now wish I was not otherwise specified so I could write "PDD-NOS"-y on a black shirt in large bright letters and wear it to school.



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11 Jun 2012, 10:06 am

I like the term "aspie" as I see it is used as a term of affection rather than something derogatory.

"Spectrumite" or anything similar might also refer to people on other spectrums like schizophrenia.



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11 Jun 2012, 11:24 am

In German, "Autist" can refer to a person with atypical autism, AS or classical autism. I talk of myself as an "Autist".

Similarly, "Aspie" is an extremely popular way to refer to those with AS in Germany too but personally, I hate the term aspie.


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13 Dec 2012, 3:36 pm

People call me simply "Sheldon" and got used to it.


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13 Dec 2012, 4:43 pm

My husband calls me "my aspie" or "my autistic wife" but not often. He usually calls me Hun. But whenever he calls me those other two, I call him "my brain damage" or call him broken. But then he tells me if he is broken, then so am I or he says he isn't broken and neither am I. He used to say to me "I'm not broken, you're broken." So I would call him him that just so he would say those words to me because I found it hilarious.

I have also heard the words Spaz or Spazistic (sp). I have also heard the term aspietard and I found that hilarious. I have also heard the word Aspergarian and I personally don't like it but only because I knew two bad people with that condition and they referred to themselves as that.

I wish there was a cute nickname for people with PDD-NOS so they are not left out.


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13 Dec 2012, 4:50 pm

My boyfriend calls me his Aspergirl, sounds like a superhero. I like it.