As a non aspie but the mother of one where I live is pretty good (Melbourne, Australia). For my son there was $12,000 worth of funding for therapies until he turned 7, he goes to swimming and Ju jitsu especially for kids with additional needs ( any disability recognized by the government although most of the kids are on the spectrum), we see one of the best speeches in Australia, and other good therapists are around. He gets government funding ( though not much) for school. For me as parent I get $55 a week from government as Carers allowance, this is regardless of our family income- we use it to help pay for therapies), there are lots of support groups, we get heavily subsidized respite from our local council. All in all it's a great place to live- I'm glad I moved from a different city a few years ago.
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Mother of 7 year old son dx Apsergers/ADHD, 3 year old son and 2 month old daughter.