Are NTs too friendly or am I an annoying b*tch?

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Many NTs (especially middle-aged women) are way too "friendly" for me. They talk to you 3 times and call you a friend. They apparently like everyone and life is always beautiful for them. The laugh the entire day about stupid sh*t (way too loud).

I've hated those people with a passion for all my life, especially because they always expected me to be friendly and tolerant to everybody, including the biggest as*holes, and when I actually dared to complain about something, I was called cold-hearted or b*tchy.

Constantly being friendly and liking anyone and anything seems to be considered a very positive personality feature by society. I personally feel like those people are the most boring, annoying people on earth.

The hell are the NT women you are talking about?

I know the type. They annoy the hell out of me too.

Oh, do you mean the types that act tolerant and happy and all, but are really b*****s? The type of girl that dates as*holes and calls you out for calling them out?

Not necessarily.. what I mean are people that are always mindlessly happy and laugh about everything and won't accept anyone feeling bad or not laughing. If you're not as happy as them they'll give you weird looks, exclude you and call you killjoy. They act like complaining or just not being happy about something is rude.

Yeah. The fake nice, superficial ones. They probably aren't nearly as happy as they appear or else they wouldn't be trying so hard to stop killjoys. If you really want everyone to be happy you wouldn't exclude those who aren't.

Honestly, that's all on you. It's okay to not get along with certain types of people and not want to befriend them but if someone's general friendlyness is annoying you then go away. That's your problem not theirs. So yes. Annoying and bitchy on your side because if the tables were turned and someone hated your unfriendlyness you'd get offended.

I don't think you know what I mean. I have no problems when someone is friendly. Even if I did, I would of course just avoid them. But there's the sort of person that will force friendliness on you and expect the same of you, and they just won't let you alone - then, if you get a little "determined", they'll take that as unreasonable rudeness and feel offended.

The 50% (more or less) of NT's are introverted. I don't think "many" NT's are like you are describing.