Is anyone with Aspergers super ugly like I am??

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23 Nov 2011, 5:15 pm

you look pretty regular to me. I have seen way worse.



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23 Nov 2011, 5:28 pm

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Anything goes when people are insulting me, but being called "ugly" isn't even an insult anymore. People are sometimes literally afraid of the way I look and refuse to talk to me or look at me in the eye.
What's the point of living if I'm going to be autistic AND ugly? I feel like killing myself.
Here's a picture of me, except my skin is 10x worse than it looks:
http://img861.imageshack.us/i/ryanv.png/
It's most likely skin deep, but still, not exactly a good reason to believe in "God" if he's going to punish somebody like this.


No way dude, you look ok to me.
You just need to work on your self confidence, that what really attracts people. The outside does not matter so much.

And speaking as a slightly older guy, don't stress it, us guys just get better with age.
I'm in my 40's now and I think I'm lookin the best I ever have. I used to see myself as the biggest dork when I was younger. No so much anymore.


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23 Nov 2011, 5:37 pm

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I was expecting to see something like this:


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Hey! Where did you get my photo! Now everyone knows what I look like! :evil:


I think he she is kinda cute I gues it gives off a happy / fun vibe which makes it kinda hot .

Or am I mistaken ?


Lucky I didn't see this picture last thing at night - it f***ing scares me :lol:



Looks like me first thing in the morning before I put my make-up on!



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23 Nov 2011, 9:13 pm

Yes, I am "super ugly" like you.


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23 Nov 2011, 10:19 pm

Well you're lack of self confidence makes you non-attractive to girls.


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24 Nov 2011, 7:35 am

Ugly? What?
If I was a lot younger and single, you would definitely be the type I would go for. Sorry if that sounds creepy. :lol:


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24 Nov 2011, 8:34 am

Nah. You're certainly not ugly but you do however remind me a little of Paavo Siljamaki from Above & Beyond.


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24 Nov 2011, 9:06 am

You look like a very nice young man. Actually somewhat reminds me of Fred Savage from the Wonder Years, who was quite a cutie back in the day :) Horrible skin is no fun, I had bad skin as a teenager and hated it, but when I look back at myself I was so cute and should have been a hundred times nicer to myself despite the skin problems. It won't last forever, either.

Just because someone says you are ugly does not make it true, surround yourself with better people or ignore the mean people because they are totally out of line.


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24 Nov 2011, 10:08 am

Your not ugly mate i would say your average looking overall.



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24 Nov 2011, 10:26 am

HybridSoul wrote:
Anything goes when people are insulting me, but being called "ugly" isn't even an insult anymore. People are sometimes literally afraid of the way I look and refuse to talk to me or look at me in the eye.


oh well. the aspect ratio of your image is incorrect and it makes you look skinny.

people are not magicians. they can not say "you are ugly" and make you ugly by saying it.

just stand on your own and do not let people push you and muck you around. i learned that very early.



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24 Nov 2011, 10:27 am

You're not ugly. You might have some problems socializing and it seems you lack confidence. But nothing wrong with your physical appearance.



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25 Nov 2011, 3:48 am

You're not ugly. No-one is ugly. They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I think I'm pretty average. My sister always says I'm ugly, but she likes to annoy me so I think she's just making it up. I'm not saying I look perfect, but I don't think I'm ugly either.

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25 Nov 2011, 9:47 am

Haven't seen anyone hideous in this thread yet :)

But I think many people here have felt ugly at a point in their lives or still feel ugly. That is something we have to get over. It's partly our lack of social skills, that cause people to reject us and call us every negative word possible that may or may not be true (ugly, stupid, etc.). But sometimes we may look different from other people because we care less about our appearance. For example, I probably seem uglier than other women to most people, because I don't wear makeup and I don't do anything to my hair (which is out of control). But I am proud not to be as shallow as other people, and I like that I'm not some supermodel that people only like because of her looks.



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16 Dec 2012, 5:31 am

Last year I was diagnosed with Aspergers. And yes, I do. I feel ugly everyday, especially recently. I feel like I shouldn't exist, like I'm not human. 2 guys walked past me not too long ago and said 'ew', I was with my boyfriend at the time and he didn't believe me. Sometimes I wonder why he's even with me, he says I'm pretty but everytime I look in the mirror, or at a picture someone took of me, I see myself as hideous. And I hate it so much, I'm even too freaked out to be in a picture with my family. I know how you feel, but honestly looking at your picture you look fine. There's nothing wrong with you.



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16 Dec 2012, 6:41 am

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Last year I was diagnosed with Aspergers. And yes, I do. I feel ugly everyday, especially recently. I feel like I shouldn't exist, like I'm not human. 2 guys walked past me not too long ago and said 'ew', I was with my boyfriend at the time and he didn't believe me. Sometimes I wonder why he's even with me, he says I'm pretty but everytime I look in the mirror, or at a picture someone took of me, I see myself as hideous. And I hate it so much, I'm even too freaked out to be in a picture with my family. I know how you feel, but honestly looking at your picture you look fine. There's nothing wrong with you.


You have a boyfriend so you can't be that bad. And perhaps the guys who said ew weren't saying it about you. What if one of them just stepped in a dog turd or saw a squashed worm and just said it at that moment that they walked past. Also, some men get very bitchy when they don't have a girlfriend and like to be spiteful to women, just to give you a complex because they are jealous.


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16 Dec 2012, 10:13 am

You are not ugly at all. And whoever calls you ugly are just trying to bully you. I've been called ugly before by bullys, but I am not ugly. I know what bullies say can make you feel bad about yourself. I am assuming whoever called you ugly are bullies. They're liars too.

There are people out there who are actually very ugly and scary to look at, but they still get looked at. Heck, they still seem to get themselves a lover! So, don't think you are ugly just because people avoid eye contact with you.


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