Special interest destroyed!

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So... during a meltdown I was having last night my darling wife took it upon herself to raise above her head every single one of my radio controlled model aircraft and smash them, damaging each one irreparably. The one part that survived the impact was taken upon with the pointy end of an engraving tool until it too was rendered totally unrepairable. I was stood in the garage with no route of escape and this was all done in front of me. All the while I was begging her to stop. I don't know what to do. All I was trying to do was get out of the house to try and cool off.

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thingsthatusedtofly

She's got to go, that's COMPLETELY disrespectful towards you.

thats criminal damage

That sounds like an abusive relationship right there (though I don't know the details, so I could be wrong). I agree with LimitedSlip.

In your situation, I would not stay... that indicates a complete lack of understanding of you and a complete disrespect for who you are and our needs

I'm very sorry to hear about that. You have my sympathy.

Your wife does not deserve you. Boot her out.

That sounds terrible, and I agree: that does not sound like a respectful relationship. I'd recommend getting out of there.

Also, your post just showed me that I do have some kind of empathy after all, because I nearly started crying imagining that.

Last edited by Sanctus on 08 Feb 2013, 8:13 pm, edited 1 time in total.

I always said NT women were generally horrible people.

And I've always said that people that make such statements are generally horrible people. Myself hence included.

There's no question about it, at least in the event in question this is classic abusive behavior
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm#signs

To be honest. If I saw something like that happen in front of me - I really would physically stop it.

In fact there is no way i would forgive that. She has done that out of pure hate and spite and that is not acceptable.

call the police. Screw her.

Say what you like, I don't care. I didn't want to believe such a thing but my life experience has convinced me of it and I'm no spring chicken; if you want to deal with them, be my guest, but I'm not going to lie.

I am disgusted by such behavior. The only thing I can offer as perhaps a sort of condolence is...well, now you can begin all over again and that in and of itself could possibly be an enjoyable experience. I know with myself, if something of the sort occurs, at first I am heartbroken, and then when I realise all the new possibilities that have a potential to unfurl before me, I become excited. Somewhat of an example: I have lost/had my purse stolen on several occasions. At first it is a tremendously stressful and unhappy situation for me. After a while, when it really hits me that I have to accept the fact of it all, I start to make a list of what I will need to *replenish* of my stolen/lost goods... ... ...then I get excited because, well, f*** it, it's like starting new all over again.

As far as your significant other goes...try to dump her before it gets any worse. That is beyond disrespectful, especially because it had a ton of meaning for you, and for her to destroy everything like that...ugh...get rid of her as fast and as painlessly as possible!

They're not. Generalizing from a small sample is completely meaningless and typically factually wrong.

Anyway, I wouldn't stay around anyone who would deliberately destroy my belongings, special interest or not. Someone who deliberately destroys the things I enjoy most, however, is someone I would make extra effort to get away from. That behavior is psychologically abusive domestic violence.

Divorce her.