Does anybody have problems constructing sentences?

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I struggle with finding the right words while talking. It's not difficult thinking and typing as I go but I can't seem to formulate a complete sentence in my speech. I was trying to explain something to my boss today and it took me a few minutes to find the right words while he waited on me. I started mixing a whole bunch of gibberish that made no sense to him. I finally was on point after my third try. He's very patient with me and I don't feel too bad about his judgement because he already knows I am socially awkward from when he first hired me and I suspect that he knows I am autistic. Do NT's assume you're autistic if you can't construct a proper sentence? I have never met anybody that struggles with this in real life so I ask because it seems like I am only this until I log on to WP and see I am not alone.

I've had similar problems. I have felt like an idiot on many occasions while talking. I'll either choose the wrong words or mispronounce words that I know perfectly well how to say. They just come out wrong. I find that I avoid speaking because of that.

I have this problem sometimes. While I am talking, I try to think of the right word to say, but I can't think of it. Instead of stuttering, I make uhh sounds because I am trying to think of how I should say my sentence. So, I end up saying a similar word to what I want to say. It makes my sentences sound weird, and then I feel awkward.

Occasionally, I too have this problem, especially when the topic is a very personal one, for example my AS. Too, my mind is usually far ahead of my mouth and that causes me to sometimes skip a few words. It's sort of like a CD skipping a few blocks of data.

my boyfriend constantly gets annoyed with me because of this. I use the wrong "tone" and words when i speak apparently. And no matter what i try n do, he wont understand why, thinks i can correct it just over night. its not that simple n i cant really find the words to explain to him why i cant construct verbal sentences properly....

I have this problem. Most NTs seem to assume it means that I am nervous, which is not the reason. It's also one of the things which led to some of the staff at my university suggesting I get tested for dyslexia/dyspraxia, but they didn't suggest AS. I was diagnosed with dyspraxia and apparently it's a common symptom.

I have problems with this at times. I stumble over words.

One more to add to the pile!

Hopefully my psychologist will be able to help me overcome this.

Sometimes. I can be quite eloquent but when I become flustered for whatever reason I can struggle to put together even the simplest of sentences - I speak but what comes out is garbled, stammered and incoherent. It's incredibly frustrating.

edit: Also I frequently have moments in which I completely forget a word which I am extremely familiar with and might spend as much as a minute or more trying to remember it. Sometimes I don't remember it for hours.

Sometimes the words come out in the wrong order.

Sometimes they come out in the right order but my mind had wondered so far off topic that I ended up saying something completely irrelevant.

I don't think it happens that often though.

I have problems with this too, but I'm usually pretty quiet and don't say much, so maybe no one notices.

OMG, yes!
My sentences come out all jumbled up. It's like the parts of the thought get completely scrambled when they pass into my vocal cords. For this reason, I rarely speak, and when I do, I try to be as concise as possible - less chance to get confused.

Im the same way, I can formulate sentences in my head but when it comes to verbalizing them my mind goes blank

I have an even harder time starting a conversation

If I'm talking about something pratical and logical to a person who I know is a good listener, then I can talk very logically and clearly and he/she can fully understand me. However, in a more social situation such as unimportant small talk with people who are judgemental, then I either stumble and cannot say anything or say something stupid and get judged very harshly by them. I don't know if it's a problem with constructing a sentence or with coming up with an idea that I would then transform into a sentence.

I sometimes struggle with sentences that involve lots of changes of personal pronouns (I, him, they, and then his, hers, mine, etc). Although I am reasonably smart, and can do it easily in writing, for some reason when I go to construct sentences like this verbally, I know what I am trying to say, but it all gets mixed up and comes out in the wrong way. It is much worse when I am stressed, or tired.

I wonder sometimes why I battle with foreign languages, when I have this issue in my native language.

And sometimes under pressure I can't construct a sentence at all. I think that's why I can't do small talk. If I am in a roomful of strangers, or even with one person who gives me bad vibes, it's like my mind goes completely blank and there are no words in there at all.