Page 1 of 3 [ 46 posts ]  Go to page 1, 2, 3  Next

Sieanna
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse

User avatar

Joined: 28 Mar 2013
Age: 44
Gender: Female
Posts: 29

05 Jul 2013, 7:34 am

I am tired of people asking me, "Are you well?" I don't have a mental illness.
I receive Disability benefits for a mild Learning Disability. The only diagnose I am aware of by a Psychiatrist is High functioning Autism.
I take medication to help with depression and anxiety. The medication can slow my speech.
Perhaps that is why people sometimes ask me, 'are you well?'
because my speech is slow or slurred without medication. Medication makes my speech worse.
I once saw a Psychologist who believed I had mild autism also.



Last edited by Sieanna on 05 Jul 2013, 7:55 am, edited 1 time in total.

Laddo
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 24 Dec 2011
Age: 33
Gender: Male
Posts: 581

05 Jul 2013, 7:47 am

Sieanna wrote:
I am tired of people asking me, "Are you well?" I don't have a mental illness. I receive Disability benefits for a mild Learning Disability.
The only diagnose I am aware of by a Psychiatrist is High functioning Autism. I once saw a Psychologist who believed I had mild autism also.


Are you sure they're not just asking about your health in general? NTs ask each other the same question all the time, they're just being polite


_________________
I am no longer using this account or this website. Do not bother contacting me because any messages will be ignored. The fact that you can't delete your profile while all your information is retained is also disgraceful.


Sieanna
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse

User avatar

Joined: 28 Mar 2013
Age: 44
Gender: Female
Posts: 29

05 Jul 2013, 8:04 am

People often ask me that question and they are polite and no I don't think it is typical.



Laddo
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 24 Dec 2011
Age: 33
Gender: Male
Posts: 581

05 Jul 2013, 10:41 am

I've always thought of "Are you well?" as being the same as "How are you?". My dad always phrases it that way to anyone he hasn't seen for a while, regardless of whether they're autistic or not. To me it doesn't sound like they're asking because of your autism - the question is rarely about health anyway, it's more to do with finding out what you've been up to etc. I wouldn't take it personally


_________________
I am no longer using this account or this website. Do not bother contacting me because any messages will be ignored. The fact that you can't delete your profile while all your information is retained is also disgraceful.


KingdomOfRats
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 31 Oct 2005
Age: 40
Gender: Female
Posts: 4,833
Location: f'ton,manchester UK

05 Jul 2013, 4:37 pm

sienna,
where abouts are from? this can affect the sort of things people address others like.
for example,in america autism is regulary refered to as a 'health condition' and a 'mental illness' or 'pyschiatric disorder' and this is because traditionaly it has always been diagnosed via pyschiatric manual criteria [eg, ICD,DSM,gilberg].

in the UK disability awareness is more progressive on disability language and the closest will medicaly find to what america terms it is 'mental impairment',which is what the DWP categorise everything that isnt physical.

just ask them what they meant by it without being nasty and it shoud help clear things up.
if they do actualy think autism is a mental illness then perhaps can help by educating them on it.
or perhaps look into getting involved in autism activism; one of the issues coud be highlighting is exactly this point.


_________________
>severely autistic.
>>the residential autist; http://theresidentialautist.blogspot.co.uk
blogging from the view of an ex institutionalised autism/ID activist now in community care.
>>>help to keep bullying off our community,report it!


Sieanna
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse

User avatar

Joined: 28 Mar 2013
Age: 44
Gender: Female
Posts: 29

05 Jul 2013, 11:23 pm

How could autism be a mental illness or psychiatric disorder when it is neurological. Epilepsy is neurological.



Dillogic
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 24 Nov 2011
Gender: Male
Posts: 9,339

06 Jul 2013, 12:33 am

Mental illness, mental disorder; it's just semantics.

Since it's classed as a mental disorder, it can be called a mental illness (you can use them interchangeably).

It's neurological in origin, but you'll find most mental illnesses are.



Sweetleaf
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 6 Jan 2011
Age: 34
Gender: Female
Posts: 34,907
Location: Somewhere in Colorado

06 Jul 2013, 12:53 am

Of course Autism isn't a mental illness, but it's still a mental disorder/condition. Depression and anxiety are mental illnesses however, so if you have those then you do have mental illness. Not really sure where this thread is supposed to go.


_________________
We won't go back.


Sieanna
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse

User avatar

Joined: 28 Mar 2013
Age: 44
Gender: Female
Posts: 29

06 Jul 2013, 12:59 am

Depression and anxiety aren't autism though are they. People could say Epilepsy is a disorder of the mind but it still isn't a mental illness.



atdevel
Pileated woodpecker
Pileated woodpecker

User avatar

Joined: 16 Jun 2012
Gender: Male
Posts: 194

06 Jul 2013, 1:20 pm

Unfortunately, I can't agree with you fully. You yourself might just be fine. But if Autism is affecting your ability to do daily tasks and to live on your own, that person needs treatment.



Cornflake
Administrator
Administrator

User avatar

Joined: 30 Oct 2010
Gender: Male
Posts: 68,798
Location: Over there

06 Jul 2013, 4:49 pm

Moved from Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation to GAD]


_________________
Giraffe: a ruminant with a view.


Sweetleaf
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 6 Jan 2011
Age: 34
Gender: Female
Posts: 34,907
Location: Somewhere in Colorado

06 Jul 2013, 5:17 pm

Sieanna wrote:
Depression and anxiety aren't autism though are they. People could say Epilepsy is a disorder of the mind but it still isn't a mental illness.


Don't think anyone said those things are autism. I said they are mental illnesses, having autism does not make one immune to mental illnesses like depression or anxiety.


_________________
We won't go back.


Last edited by Sweetleaf on 07 Jul 2013, 10:40 am, edited 1 time in total.

Ettina
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 13 Jan 2011
Age: 35
Gender: Female
Posts: 3,971

06 Jul 2013, 5:22 pm

I don't think the question 'are you well?' refers to a belief that autism is a mental illness.

I've seen it used in two contexts:

As a polite thing to say after greeting someone, same as 'how are you?' or 'how is it going?' In this case, the person saying this is generally expecting the reply 'I'm fine', and usually does not expect that there will be anything 'wrong' with the person.

When a person is showing signs that could indicate an acute illness (not a chronic condition). For example, if you started feeling faint and sat down on the ground, someone might ask you this. In this case, they aren't expecting to hear about a chronic health condition, much less a mental illness. Instead, they're expecting to hear why you are sitting on the ground, and whether you need them to get you some sort of help.

Most of the time, when talking to someone who has slurred speech and appears to have some sort of mental condition, people will generally not ask about it. Instead, they'll try to pretend they haven't noticed anything odd about the person, although afterwards they may comment about them to others. (And depending on how nice or mean they are, these comments could be positive or negative.)



Max000
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 6 Apr 2012
Age: 63
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,547

06 Jul 2013, 7:30 pm

Sieanna wrote:
How could autism be a mental illness or psychiatric disorder when it is neurological. Epilepsy is neurological.


mental illness
n.
Any of various conditions characterized by impairment of an individual's normal cognitive, emotional, or behavioral functioning, and caused by social, psychological, biochemical, genetic, or other factors, such as infection or head trauma. Also called emotional illness, mental disease, mental disorder.

The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition copyright ©2000 by Houghton Mifflin Company. Updated in 2009. Published by Houghton Mifflin Company. All rights reserved.


:arrow: mental illness



Dillogic
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 24 Nov 2011
Gender: Male
Posts: 9,339

06 Jul 2013, 11:23 pm

Hence, it's a mental illness.

I have no idea why people have a problem with that.



Laddo
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 24 Dec 2011
Age: 33
Gender: Male
Posts: 581

07 Jul 2013, 4:34 am

Dillogic wrote:
Hence, it's a mental illness.

I have no idea why people have a problem with that.


Me neither. I think of both my AS and ADHD as mental illnesses. They both cause me significant problems with tasks NTs can ordinarily manage without any trouble. Ergo, illness.

I think people have a problem with it because there's a new trend of people disliking labels. I don't mind the labels, because I know what I am capable of and what I am not capable of. The label changes nothing.


_________________
I am no longer using this account or this website. Do not bother contacting me because any messages will be ignored. The fact that you can't delete your profile while all your information is retained is also disgraceful.