Imaginging horrible things happening to bullies

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Lostathome
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09 Nov 2013, 6:49 am

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Lostathome wrote:

Barely a day goes by where I don't imagine terrible things happening to the people who bullied me.

I would do it, too. I don't feel any mercy for them. I doubt they have souls, let alone feelings, anyway. There's tons of people like them, nothing would be lost.

The law is an obstacle, but honestly, if I ever find myself cornered in life, what would I have left to lose?

No, the only thing that truly keeps them safe from paying for what they did is that there is no physically possible torture that I could inflict upon them that would equal to what they did to me. My childhood was stolen. My adolescence, ruined. I might never quite be okay. I might never be able to fully trust anyone.

Thus, seeking revenge is pointless. I'd go to all that effort, but ultimately, it could never satsify me. Not because revenge is hollow, but it is simply not possible to supply a sufficient punishment for their crimes.

i feel the same way exactly, but not about online bullies, because they cant do much. i mean bullies in real life, and it has to be something real bad. as a child, the grownups jumped the line in the grocery store each and every time. they stood behind me, but went above my head, and if i said something, they would yell "shut up, i'm older than you are." and act menacing. i was afraid, so i stayed for an hour in the grocery store, and then when everyone was gone, the b***h behind the counter would give me a look even i could read, 'i could kill you.' and turned her back and made me wait some more.
there were a millions other things, of course, but i wont even get into them because it's too long a list. we aspies get bullied constantly. yes, those people dont have a soul, they're not human, and from watching feral cats and dogs, i can safely say they usually act much better.
but what you have to remember is, yes, they have bullies online, but there are genuine people who wont bully you. if you want a friend, you can probably find one here. it's easy. and dont let one or two people who bully you chase you off the forum! assuming it will happen. if someone bullies you, block that person and keep talking to the people you feel comfortable with. dont let a few bad experiences stop you from finding a friend online.
where you bullied in aspie forums or nt? i do believe bullying probably happens much less in aspie forums.

Sorry, I didn't make it clear. I was bullied in real life, for most of my childhood, everything from name calling to holding a piece of broken glass to my neck.

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09 Nov 2013, 12:52 pm

A good number of people have hurt me during my life. But God has been on my side. 4 of them are dead, and 2 of them have met utter ruin.
I am waiting for one man who hurt me horribly to be punished. With a debilitating stroke.

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09 Nov 2013, 1:21 pm

JSBACHlover wrote:

A good number of people have hurt me during my life. But God has been on my side. 4 of them are dead, and 2 of them have met utter ruin.

Does your god do requests?

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09 Nov 2013, 4:59 pm

JSBACHlover wrote:

be very careful. one should not descend to the level of the ones who cause us harm- if we do stoop to their level[by hating them as they hate us], then they have WON. hate+hate only crams yet more hate in this hellworld which already overflows with hate.

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09 Nov 2013, 5:03 pm

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It was either 'w*kers' or 'dingleberries' and w*kers seemed more fitting at the time. I think I just needed to vent. They are so...irksome.

a dingleberry is a linty bit left over from wiping. that has far worse connotations [or is it denotations] than a mere w*ker. anyways, I just imagine my bullies getting bullied themselves. if the universe bullies them, that is even better.

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09 Nov 2013, 5:07 pm

wozeree wrote:

auntblabby wrote:

bumble wrote:

It was either 'w*kers' or 'dingleberries' and w*kers seemed more fitting at the time. I think I just needed to vent. They are so...irksome.

my fave epithet is "hemorrhoid" - it perfectly encapsulates what a PITA some people can be.

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09 Nov 2013, 7:30 pm

Yes, I used to wish death upon the people who bullied me at school. This one girl was in a car accident and I hoped she'd died (she didn't). When I heard a rugby player had died while playing on the field I hoped it was one of the nasty ones who bullied me (it wasn't).

Most of the people who were mean to me, in one form or another, seem to have done ok for themselves - married, good jobs, etc. Maybe there's something to be said for sociopaths flourishing in the world of business. I've forgiven some who apologized, while I hope that one day the others will die horribly in a plane crash.

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15 Nov 2013, 11:56 pm

I have noticed so many of the people that have bullied me and my husband are either in jail or are pregnant and their boyfriends have run off. I remember mum telling me in February that this girl that put me down that had a lower reading score than me was in WINZ ( it is a social welfare office) and wearing a skimpy skirt and she was pregnant - that made me smile. I always go to the court news to see if any of my bullies have made the list. I think my revenge was being way more successful with my life, finding someone that loves me for who I am and didn't dump me when they found out I have AS and making more money. I do wish death on people that have hurted my husband, mother or me. Two of my bullies have died.

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16 Nov 2013, 2:03 am

Until diagnoses earlier this year meant childhood and teen traumas needed to be discussed and these threads I rarely thought about bullying. It's a bad part of my history but that is what it is my history. I have enough problems now to worry about 40 and 50 years ago. I think that the best most successful years of my life immediately followed the bullying years helped me a lot with putting it in the history box. There are some lingering issues but they have been around so long that there origins don't have meaning. I don't remember the bullies names or know where or if they still are.

If I knew would I want something terrible to befall them, no because they are probably some kids grandfather now.

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16 Nov 2013, 11:58 am

I don't see how cyber bullying can be such a big problem. After all, "Sticks and stones may break my bones but name can never hurt me.". I am surprised that people don't get that when they get a insulting or harassing text message or E-mail. When someone does that to me. I just drag it into the trash and flag it as "ignore". Simple as that.

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16 Nov 2013, 12:05 pm

I imagine them being put into a brazen bull! [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C7B3DrxH8rA[/youtube]

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