Do you intellectually intimidate people?

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I don't show off my abilities, but as people get to know me they quickly can figure out that I"m above average. I have a plethora historical facts and knowledge that I can start talking about and keep going for hours and hours. I've avoid doing this, but people will tend to find that my thinking is "different" and they will either stay away from me from that point or they will treat me different in front of others. This causes me to generally stay away from people because they will most likely treat me different. I've even been told by others in my life that "this person is jealous of you" or "this group is jealous of you" (employment).

I even noticed this with doctors who had worked with me in the past. They slip up during therapy and show some jealousy etc....

Do you guys often have this issue.

I was bullied a lot because of my academic ability. People think I am showing off. I was just trying to use my skills and never for one moment thought they would piss anyone off.

Yes, but as I'm not the sharpest stick in the bunch I feel it appropriate to question the intelligence of those who would label me 'smart'.

I think it's my response that intimidates.

No, other people intellectually intimidate me. It's very rare that I win intellectually. Usually that happens when I'm talking to a small child or a person with learning difficulties.

Apparently, but I've also being intimidated intellectually by the very person I intimidated if one of my weak areas is in question.

I find 'true intelligence' to be an incredibly vague and stereotyped concept especially considering the fact that most people seem to narrow 'intelligence' down to one's ability to utilize 'logic' when dealing with certain types of math. I don't see how using logic in math is substantially different to using logic in any other subject or situation, nor do I see why it's considered more prestigious than other intellectual areas. The way I see it, if you do math long enough you will build 'knowledge' the same way you would if you were studying biology or any other study.

4:30AM, if I'm not making sense I'll edit this when I wake up next.

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I don't know if 'intimidate' is the right word, but I learned as a kid that nobody likes a know-it-all, or a teacher's pet, or a show-off. So I learned early on to just keep quiet, and often pretended not to know the answers to things in school, so I wouldn't get picked on.

It's interesting how we get bullied for our strengths, as well as our weaknesses.

Yes. I was even told that I should 'stop being clever' when I asked why nobody would be friends with me. I moved schools eventually and even there a group of people hated me for the same reason. They were constantly trying to get me in trouble with the teacher.

Luckily I am in a good school now where I get respected for my intelligence, despite my weirdness

It depends on the subject. If its abnormal psychology, yes I "intellectually" intimidate people. I have even taught psychologists and psychiatrists things they didn't know and technically I never went to med school! Sometimes I even use words (not psychology) that others don't know. I don't know if its exactly intimidating, but its kind of sad that these people don't know these things. Outside of my special interests, I am the exact opposite. I am intellectually intimidated by 99% of the human population. My IQ is very, very low. In the Borderline Intellectual Functioning range. My problem solving isn't there. My overall vocabulary is missing, outside of a couple of words that some people doesn't know. Now in my weather class in college I scored the highest on every single test given. Its because before I went to the community college, I went to flight school and learned about weather there as well. And going back even further, when I was little all I would do is watch the weather channel. So of course I was ahead in that subject! I even scored high on the test the teacher warned about, "No one ever passes the first test. Most people get around a 50% or lower." I got an 86%. He graded on a curve so it equaled 100% for me. The next score was around a 50% on that test from my brother. We both took that class together. Another time I blew away the class was in high school. Biology class. On the final test I got 106%! But intellectually I am all over the place. gifted in some areas and intellectually disabled in others.

One thing I often have to assist people at work with is our computers and software, since some of them are very inexperienced (flash drives are a common subject...). I think people assume I'm smart because of the association between computers and intelligence, but I try to play it down because I don't want to be intimidating or make people feel like I'm looking down on them for not knowing.

I might, I'm not sure. But I think the combination of reasonable level of intelligence with being very scattered makes me seem in another plain. I try not to intimidate, though. I don't want to, and it annoys people.

No. My mind is a warehouse of trivia, but people find it interesting, not intimidating.