are you more obsessed when stressed/depressed

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are you more obsessed when stressed/depressed
yeah i am, when im stressed out i NEED my SI 56%  56%  [ 22 ]
kinda, it stays the same pretty much all the time 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
no, im only obsessed when im calm and happy 31%  31%  [ 12 ]
i dont even have a special interest 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
it seems to fluctuate all the time, its never stable regardless of feelings 10%  10%  [ 4 ]
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12 Feb 2014, 2:33 pm

Generally, no. When I am stressed I am usually too busy to think about my special interests and when I am depressed I am usually too unhappy to concentrate on them, though I often escape into the ones that need no abstract thought, such as walking.



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12 Feb 2014, 3:19 pm

ZombieBrideXD wrote:
hi, just doing a serve here, are you more obsessed with your special interest when stressed or depressed?


My special interests are reading and sci-fi (mostly Star Trek). When I am stressed out, I tend to want to go hide (in the closet if I'm really stressed out/overstimulated) and read snuggled up in blankets.

If I'm sick, I want to watch endless Star Trek videos from any of the series. If I'm really sick, but not bedridden/sleeping all the time, I want to watch original Star Trek videos. (If I'm bedridden, I read Star Trek fan fics or Star Trek novels.

When I'm less stressed out, I read a greater variety of books, branching out to other sci fi (especially Asimov), Xanth, Pern, Jane Austen, Charles Dickens, and some light historical fiction or even light romances.

Ignoring PMS, I'm not often depressed. When I am, I either hide with a book or complain to my kids about trivial things. For some reason, being upset, especially angry, makes me want to clean.

I never go anywhere without a book or Kindle or both. (or several pens and some writing pads and my keys, but that is separate)



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12 Feb 2014, 3:30 pm

Who_Am_I wrote:

Same here.
When I'm depressed I'm less obsessed because "everything sucks and nothing is worth the effort ".

When I'm stressed I'm less obsessed because "I have too much to do and not enough time to do it in and OH MY GOD I'M GOING TO DIE ", which makes it hard to focus.

I'm also more stimmy when I'm calm and happy.


IKnowWhoIAmNow wrote:
Generally, no. When I am stressed I am usually too busy to think about my special interests and when I am depressed I am usually too unhappy to concentrate on them, though I often escape into the ones that need no abstract thought, such as walking.


I agree with these two folks with the very opposite usernames. In addition, it seems that none of the poll options apply to me. While, yes, I will devote more time on my interests when I'm calm and happy, my interests will really kick into full gear when I'm on the opposite of depression: a somewhat 'manic' period. I'll be pretty frantic all of the time, though especially when I'm engaged in my interests. I would not describe that state as 'calm'.


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12 Feb 2014, 4:20 pm

Yes I do but this happens to Nts too. They also get more into their hobbies and that is all they ever want to do. It has happened to my mother and to my brother. Then when they got on some medicine for their depression, they got interested in going out again and doing other stuff.


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12 Feb 2014, 4:43 pm

In my case, I "hide" in my special interests when I'm stressed or depressed. Either condition also causes my OCD behaviors to get a little on the wacked-out side. When I'm calm and happy, I can deal with the rest of the world instead of feeling the need to hide in my special interests, and my OCD behaviors virtually disappear.