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Do you hate people?
yes 40%  40%  [ 32 ]
no 60%  60%  [ 49 ]
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03 Oct 2014, 12:19 am

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There was only a handful of people in my life that I hated/disliked, but I lost touch with them a while back. Everyone else I either love or tolerate, even on my worst days.

+1. but there are people i don't hate, but just cant stand that i cannot get away from, yet. human beings and their social structures have caused all of the worst pain and agony in my life, yet it is never fair and rarely right to tar everyone with the same brush so i will not say that i hate all people, because i don't. i'm currently unsure whether humans are inherently good or bad but all of the other the individuals i've met have been helpful and pleasant to speak to and be around. i really appreciate them being in my life and i wish i could give more to them.

the masses, i feel like they will just follow what they like and what is new and hip, not just necessarily what is merely good or bad. they have certainly brought their fair share of destruction to their only home and the species they coexist with. yet the act of destroying more than what we need is being restricted by law and is winding down otherwise, most societies and nations are going in a more earth friendly, connected direction, which is very good but there are always the occasional pariahs.

but me, i do not always get super emotional when i read something terrible on the news, it's terrible alright but it's not like i'm going to go home and cry about it.


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03 Oct 2014, 5:51 am

For me hate is too strong of a word I may dislike or detest people's actions but for the most part I don't hate anybody....well except one person tho I think in someways I've made peace with everything that had happened to me that day by that one person...but I still hate the scumbag lol. But in general I don't really hate anybody.


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03 Oct 2014, 6:03 am

No, I don't hate people.
I love my family, but for people in general, I don't love them or hate them.
They are just people.
There are people I like and admire and I fear people who are cruel or treat me badly.
But I don't hate people.



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03 Oct 2014, 7:07 am

I tend towards solitude a lot, except for my immediate family. But not preferring the company of others isn't automatically dislike or hate of them. When I am in the right mood I enjoy their company and also know they have the same rights to their lives and preferences as I do.



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03 Oct 2014, 10:29 am

Not personally. I love having friends, getting to know new people, having people to talk to, and of course my own family and my partner. But sometimes I get really irritable when I'm out in public, and I find I sometimes hate the general public, but nobody personally. I'm always polite and all of that.

Often I get more impatient with too many cars everywhere. I'm walking on a quiet country road, then suddenly a car creeps up from behind me and I've got to get over on to the side, usually in the mud. Or when I'm trying to cross the road and there's just too many cars coming along, I mutter ''oh I hate people!'' to myself.

But I don't ever mean it personally.


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03 Oct 2014, 1:43 pm

No. I do not hate people.


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03 Oct 2014, 4:16 pm

Nah. I'm disillusioned and mostly just want to be left alone. I like people just fine when I don't have to deal with them too closely, like classmates.



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03 Oct 2014, 5:46 pm

Except a couple.

Yeah.

The bastards just want to tell and force you what you can and can't do, what you can and can't own, how you should live, and other despotic actions. Then you have bullying and violent people that'll hurt you for literally no reason.

Seriously, f**k 'em.



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03 Oct 2014, 8:25 pm

BirdInFlight wrote:
Too complicated for a yes or no answer! :wink:


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03 Oct 2014, 9:02 pm

Either. Or neither. I can't say 'Yes' or 'No'.


In my mind, I have full of thoughts of vengeance and hatred. Frustration cause by confusion is perhaps a rather constant one half the time.

But in my heart, it's full of forgiveness. This part stops me things from my mind to do so. NOT the social rules itself, NOT because 'someone' told me not to.


... At the same time the very social rules and people stops me from being actively 'benevolent'. I wish my mom would stop watching me.

Therefore the outcome becomes and appears 'Apathetic'.


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04 Oct 2014, 5:13 am

TheTigress wrote:
As a whole, mostly yes. All you have to do is work in customer service (food or retail) and realize how nasty and sickening people can be when they think they think they are in a position of power or have "class superiority" in their mind. I have a select group such as close family and friends that I do not hate, but it takes a lot for me to put a person into friend territory.

I have worked in the same fields and know exactly what you're talking about. And it's not like I'm rude to customers; I try to be very polite and listen to them, but sometimes it gets abused and thrown back in my face and then I hate people all over again. They just can't be trusted very far, because how do I know who will hurt me and who won't? I can barely remember their faces, let alone guess what they're thinking.

When people aren't lying, bothering me, or screwing me over, then I don't hate them so much. But I still don't care to be around them because the stress is so overwhelming. I don't understand them or their silly problems, most of which they bring on themselves anyway. I'll just nod and go along when they complain to me about their day, but sometimes all I can think about is that they wouldn't last a week in my shoes. NT's have so many advantages that they take for granted, because they don't know what it's like to shut down from sensory overload or be terrified to answer the phone. They just don't get it at all.

But I've never really hated a person individually. At least there's that.


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18 Oct 2014, 11:59 pm

I have no opinion, one way or the other.



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19 Oct 2014, 3:03 pm

I only hate people who caused me pain or something but I don't just hate random people.



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19 Oct 2014, 3:07 pm

Sometimes.


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19 Oct 2014, 3:09 pm

I don't hate people but I dislike being around them for a long time.



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19 Oct 2014, 3:31 pm

No.