I agree with Adamantium. There is a saying: ?Democracy gives every man the right to be his own oppressor.?----and it must give every parent the right to oppress their children, cuz that's just what they're doing when they always have this "Oh, my poor child" attitude. These so-called "Hover-Mothers" (or, whatever they're called) are doing their children NO favors, by spoiling them rotten, for instance. Then the child is sent-out into the world, and gets EATEN ALIVE, cuz nobody's gonna let them get away with the crap Mommy let them get away with. The WORST, for instance, is when I've seen a baby just learning how to walk and the baby falls-over and does NOT hurt himself, and doesn't even cry, UNTIL the mother rushes-in with all her "Oh, my baby----my poor baby"----THEN, the kid CRIES cuz the mother has just scared the bejesus out of it, and TAUGHT it to cry when it falls-over (and NOW that becomes a "button" that the kid knows to push, anytime he wants attention)! !! It's always that the injured / hurt / deformed / Autie / Aspie / whatever suffers alot LESS than the person on the outside, lookin'-in, thinks they are.
whatamess wrote:
It seems that the only ones attempt to keep EVERYONE in the same group and let the world know that regardless of where on the spectrum they fall, they feel at ease with others on the spectrum vs. NTs, are the actual autistics themselves.
Yep----EXACTLY!! !