Is this a weird thing to say to someone?

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strillingeee
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06 Dec 2014, 4:57 pm

hi i ask this because i tend to over analyze a lot of things and turn them into situations they really arent, anyway i thought i would get a second opinion on something someone said to me not so long ago..

so basically i was asking someone to do something for me (this person is an older man like late 30s to mid 40's, not a stranger but not a relative of any kind) and he suddenly says to me 'have you ever watched 'insert film name here".. " i reply with 'no...." and he says "oh, well you remind me of the girl from it" i, obviously being curious, google the film to find out its about two lesbians which i was uncomfortable with considering i have had relations with the same sex before and have never mentioned it to anyone at all, then I proceed to watch the film where there are two 20 min lesbian sex scenes with GRAPHIC detail, and I'm talking borderline porn, if not full on pornography.
I really dont know what to make of it at all. honestly im slightly offended and a little disturbed considering im 15 > should i be or am i being paranoid and taking it the wrong way?
sorry if this question makes anyone uncomfortable? :?



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06 Dec 2014, 5:28 pm

Are you sure there might not be another movie with the same or a similar name? If he knew what kind of movie he was talking about however, this is definitely not a decent thing to say, especially since you're 15.


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06 Dec 2014, 5:46 pm

strillingeee wrote:
I really dont know what to make of it at all. honestly im slightly offended and a little disturbed considering im 15 > should i be or am i being paranoid and taking it the wrong way?
sorry if this question makes anyone uncomfortable? :?
It is a definite come on... a sexual tease... a feeler. Why would a 15 year old have watched this film? And... just for arguments sake, what would you have said to him IF you had watched the film before? Will you see him again, 'cause I think you should ignore him?


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06 Dec 2014, 5:53 pm

Sounds like that guy should be avoided. Creepy.