It's an interesting thought, but I am inclined to say that Aspergers does affect what music I listen to.
I listen to two types of music really, and only three artists, Aphex Twin, Luke Vibert (and all his aliases), and Venetian Snares. The two types of music I listen to are Ambient and IDM. On the ambient side of things, I adore the layering of various synthesizers and the shifting of tones. On the IDM side of things, I adore the fast-paced, conflicting, harsh, seemingly-random arrangement of various (and numerous) sounds, including complex drums. I listen intently to both types, in different - but comparable - ways.
I think with the ambient music, my subconscious understands the floating nature and evolution of the tracks, and its as if I can feel the music - feelings which I generally miss out on or don't experience in my life. The IDM is a workout for my head, it's like trying to figure out a complex mathematics equation by de-constructing each variable, except with IDM its separating each kick, each snare, each hi-hat and crash, each clap and other percussive instrument, while understanding the story being told by the background notes.
I think my Aspergers mind allows me to analyse these songs to such a high extent, and this I love. I don't miss any of the sounds - just as each sound in real life is always present. I also love ASMR, of which is highly relaxing to me.
I think my hypersensitive hearing really allows me to explore each and every sounds that comes through the music. One of my favourite past times is to listen to Venetian Snare's track entitled "Frictional Nevada" and clap every time one goes off in the song, it only took me a few times to master it. Great stuff.
Eustace.
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