Andrejake wrote:
I've wondered about this sometimes.
I have moments where i talk to people and mention facts that happened years ago and that (apparently) doesn't have any relevance for anyone anymore but for me it was like it happened yesterday and still matters. I never reached a conclusion about how/why i do this, but i definitely do.
I can relate to this sentiment. Just this morning I was reminded of someone I met over 20 years ago, and how several years ago I posted a photo of her on Facebook. At the time she commented on how long ago that picture had been taken. But in my mind, 20 years seemed like a mere blip. I still remember being in that place and time - and, while I was younger and less mature, it still doesn't seem like very long ago to me.
It's hard to articulate what I'm trying to say, except that I don't seem to move past the past as others around me do. In the minds of most people I know, they've left the past behind them. For them, it's ancient history. I file away a lot of random events in life, and reviewing those events is a bit like taking a different book off the shelf. The shelf is always current, even if the books haven't been picked up and opened in many years.