Is it normal for aspies to be paranoid?

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That sounds far more like extreme rumination rather than paranoia to me. Try "thought-stopping techniques" (google it).

That may be part of it but I do feel how I perceive people's motives and how they will react to me ranges on paranoid, I'm always on the lookout for being screwed and feel things are always a step or two away from unraveling for me. I just feel something bad is always around the corner for me, I always expect the worse and sometimes my anxieties are so irrational when it comes to certains like this fear I have of being arrested/imprisonend or that I have some serious illness and don't know about it. I self-medicate and remove myself, that's how I "reset" myself and just try my best avoid whatever upset me.

This is very familiar to me. It sure doesn't help that people keep on proving me correct.

It's weird how no matter how many times I tell myself that no one is really thinking bad things about me, I keep falling into the same thought pattern of becoming suspicious of people. . .even people who are good friends.

This may sound weird but does anyone ever get paranoid about their paranoia? Like the fear of becoming irrationally afraid and withdrawing because of it?

If there's a social situation coming up, I sometimes get scared that I'll become too anxious to play my part right. Anxiety has messed up my performance a lot, so it's kind of rational, but it usually doesn't turn out as bad as I'd expected.

I could have wrote that myself. Recently I have made a whole situation worse because I obsessed over it, which led to anxiety and odd behaviour. Then I stopped talking to my boyfriend because I was mulling over the situation in my head a lot and finally told him that I needed time on my own (withdrawing from everyone is my go-to way of dealing with things that are hard to deal with) which eventually led to him finishing with me which then in my head proved my theory correct :/

We have to consider the possibility that we were/are correct.

From experience I have usually found out much later that I am not correct and have ruined things with my paranoia. BUT even with that knowledge I will still act the same again in a different situation and connect things in a way that seems to prove me right

I'm assuming that you found out from other people, but what if that's just their story for the purpose of covering up an uncomfortable truth?

I hadn't considered that possibility, however the frequency in which it happens leads me to believe that there can't possibly be that many uncomfortable truths to cover up and the easiest explanation is that I'm paranoid. I try and run things past trusted friends these days, which has sometimes failed because I didn't realise that they had ulterior motives, but generally this seems to help

What sucks is even though I know that my paranoia is often unjustified, it only takes one simple rejection to fuel the thought of "what if"

My worst paranoia is receiving mail. Official letters are bad, ones without a return address I often don't open at all. As far as I'm concerned, if they don't care enough to tell me who sent the mail, then I don't care enough to open it.

And the rare personnel hand written letter scares the hell out of me. Why are they writing to me? What did I do? I have all these random abuses running through my mind. It takes effort to calm myself down and open the letter, to find it's just my mom telling me about there holidays.

I have absolutely no idea as to whether my paranoia has been developed or naturally occurs (probably both). Regardless, I have a hard-to-get-rid-of cynicism that comes from the fact that I've been through a lot of mental abuse from both SpEd teachers and NT peers. It's part of the reason I have a massive distrust for neurotypicals, and I'm somewhat paranoid about the future of autistic people as a whole.