Showering, bathing, washing in general

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During the years I spent back at my parents' home, after being away for university, still completely dependent on them, and having endless angry arguments with them about how to approach the rest of my life, what to do with my failed studies and how to start making money, I went whole months without a proper bath or shower.

I often felt I had no business being still there, and also felt unable to survive in the outside world, so there seemed to be no place for me anywhere. Not knowing what to do, I defaulted to trying to go unnoticed (my father has always complained a lot about how much I got in his way in his own house) and reducing my existence to the bare minimum short of committing suicide, which I think only cowardice stopped me from. Hygiene was one of the many everyday issues which remained unsolved as far as making agreements with my parents was concerned for the time I'd spend there. They never truly accepted modern habits like the daily shower, being more inclined to criticize me for wanting to adopt them, and, years earlier, they'd gotten angry with me for spending too much water. Actually, I was depressed and spent a lot of time in the bathroom when I was going to have a cold (no hot water) shower, and they counted it as if I'd had the water running all the time, which was far from true, but they didn't care. Every time my relationship with them wasn't recently mended by some sort of make-up conversation, memories like these led me to avoid having showers when they were around, in case they'd get angry again. Once or twice a month, I'd sneak into the bathroom at night or when they happened to be away and wash only some part of my body or other as well as I could.

I showered yesterday and 3 days ago.
One of the most important reasons why I avoid showering (especially when I have to get up early the next morning) is because for some reason I have trouble falling asleep the day I take a shower.

I dunno, day or two? My hair gets really gross if I don't wash it every day. Shower every day, have to living out in this god forsaken desert as you sweat thru everything.

I practically have to be forced into the shower. And then practically have to be dragged out.

My shower broke last year (?) and it took me about six months to get it fixed... so for a shower proper, about six months was the longest I have gone. I did wash up and deal with my hair, shave and so on during that time though. I think if it were not for my body hair issues, I would have gone longer between sink clean up times. I cannot make it more than three or four days without shaving before I get nutty due to discomfort. So for washing in general, I think four days is my longest.

Fourteen or fifteen days maybe?
I don't like showers, I don't like dampness and I passionately hate the feeling of wet fabric on my skin. I try to shower at least twice a week, but it is an effort. A bath can be nice, under the right circumstances. However, I don't have a bathtub at home.

Since we are doing personal hygiene confessions: I almost never wash my hands. It makes me uncomfortable. At first you can't get your hands completely dry and then they become so dry the skin gets tight.
Although I believe this has worked wonders for my immune system, I do see that it is unsanitary. Therefore I have started to use an alcohol and glycerin based hand sanitizer. The alcohol evaporates quickly so no sticky skin and the glycerin keeps my skin soft. I carry it everywhere, which probably makes me look like I am afraid of germs.

i tend to forget to bathe until i realize how disgusting i am, then i start feeling itchy and grimy and uncomfortable, so i take a shower. i don't normally go more than 4 days.

the actual bathing process is very to-the-point for me. i have a specific routine so that i optimize my time in the shower and don't get caught up daydreaming under the water. when i lived with my parents i would do this way too often, but now as a *responsible adult* i understand why i shouldn't do that

I shower every day.

I don't like the shower because I am uncomfortable with the water hitting me and it tends to be cold when you get out. I do was up in the sink when I feel it's necessary and wash my hair and shave every few days because that's what people notice about you.

I gotta do it once per day. I need the water and the heat and the noise the whole thing makes. And the steam. Particularly during the cold season.

Not to mention I'm kinda obsessive over anything that I classify as "being sanitary". So that helps with that.

And as I have alot of hair on my head (it's pretty darn long), I need to give it a good wash.

I can space out in there sometimes though and stay in for like 45 minutes. The hot water doesnt run out here though, via some mysterious process or something, so that's fine.

Unless I'm depressed (a depressingly common state) or caught up in a nifty project, I shower daily. I have however probably gone a week during one of my darker periods.

As I stated in another thread I refuse to shower. Period. During roadtrips I've even checked into motels that were "shower only" in their bathrooms and managed to find a way to take a bath in the bottom of the shower stall by plugging up the drain even if it meant cleaning up in water only five or six inches deep. I love my tub baths and I bathe one to two times a day depending on what activities I've participated in and also the time of year. I believe the longest I've gone without a bath in my adult life may have been around three days due to either illness or travel. I also wash my long mullet hairdo under the tub faucet and not under the showerhead when possible, usually every other day.
In addition I like strong smelling deodorant BAR soaps and "sport" scent deodorants, I totally refuse to use what they call "body wash". If I could find a way to get it where I live, I would buy and use either Dettol medicated soap or Roberts medicated soap from the UK. I sometimes put on cheap cologne knockoffs of fragrances like Polo pryor to going out.
Some here may find these habits and preferences odd, but I'm perhaps overconscious over how I might smell as the after effects of a surgery I had 17 years ago left me with incontinence issues, and I've worn diapers (nappies) since then.
Lastly, I'll never use a washcloth on my face. I clean that with alcohol and cotton balls.

Usually I either take a shower or have a bath every day but when I have had times I've felt exhausted and uncomfortable during pregnancy I could go 2-3 days without washing.

In hot weather I wash more often, twice a day or more if it's really bad. I despise feeling sweaty, it is the main reason I hated holidays abroad as a child. I am paranoid of smelling bad around people. My husband says I never smell bad but I convince myself the entire world can smell me. I wash my hands a lot too but I change nappies, deal with cat litter etc so that's just basic hygiene to me. When I was younger I was OCD about hand washing and did it way, way too much but now I think I only do it when necessary.