Poll: Ever notice Police side with seemingly happier people

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I'm an introvert , loner, ASD person (diagnosed , my shrink said I can claim ASD due to all my symptoms),
And I NEVER bother people. Why would I ? Even if they make noise, i just put my earplugs in or listen to music (with earphones), and just ignore it.

In my last 4 places I lived, I've been targeted purposefully by usually that one crazy f**k individual in the complex or in the neighborhood. And I've been maliced and harrassed out of my last 3 places of residence, even though I don't interact with anyone and mind my own business. I think they see this and they see an easy target. When people are angry or insane (about life or whatever their problems are, I don't care, not my problem) they tend to target the most unconnected person around them. This is the evil and the curse of NT psychology, instincts, and "culture".

I've called the police before when an NT (who didn't even know me) was punching my door in with his fists, and when the police came (because of my flat affect) they didn't believe me, and at the end of their time there they were buddy-buddy with the abuser (he's good with people) , and the officers even yelled at ME ! And one called me "dickless", which opened my eyes to how corrupt and non-professional these "police officers" are.

Am I scared ?
Hell ya.
In a world where the facts don't matter and the person with the biggest smile and the most social power wins the day everytime, I feel like I don't have much time on this Earth. Truly.

And I can't play their social games, I don't have that evil NT thing that makes them prevail every time.
I just don't get it, I will never get it.

I think I'll move out the country soon.
Someone offered me a placed to stay in another country. I think I'll do that soon.
American "culture" has turned into something quite negative, greedy, and evil.
The more you can f**k with people , the more money and capital you get , and get to keep.
That's why we invaded Iraq (they did nothing wrong, and the world knows that now) and murdered 1.5 million Iraqi civilians (40% of them were women and children).

Anyone have experience with this ?

Yep, I've experienced something similar to this myself, in more than one living situation. There is always one as*hole who targets me, and then by one weird little way or another, they don't get their comeuppance for that, while my concerns are dismissed and trivialized even by those who are supposed to protect my interests. My current landlords badly let me down with this recently. I could actually by rights have them over the coals for that, officially, but I'm between a rock and a hard place because there is a housing crisis where I live and HELL if I'm going to have to leave this apartment over this BS.

I must emphasize though, this does not only happen in the US. You may find this anywhere, because human nature is actually pretty much the same everywhere.

Seriously, I've actually experienced MORE as*holes in the UK this way, than I did in the US. Yes it did happen to me in the US too, but it's been worse in the UK because there are more miserable people who seem to be bent on causing harm and hurt to others here; there are miserable, angry individuals in my building who have actually caused me MORE distress and and anxiety since I've been here than any situation I had while residing in the US.

I just want to put that out there. It's not about countries, it's about human beings. It's part of the human condition for there to be bullies who pick on people, and for there to be "authority" figures who don't get what's happening and side with the cleverly-presented bully.

I'm not a person who seems to be able to get taken seriously when a conflict becomes a matter of other people's involvement, even when I may happen to be the one in the right or the one needing protection or belief. It does start to make you feel burned out with the injustice. I wish for ONCE in my life someone would be on my side. I'm fighting all my battles alone. I will fight but I'm tired.

Aww,

sorry to hear that , BirdInFlight,

Having a friend or two helps greatly with these battles.
I mean a real friend.

Glad to see I'm not "crazy". Seems society labels you crazy if you speak out against injustices or bullies,
which is why I think this species might have been engineered as a slave species for another race of beings.
Makes sense, slaves always murder the ones that complain just to please their master.

I know that's "out there", but how would a naturally strong and prolific species develop into the rats we apparently are today ? It's impossible. Unless there's outside influence, or maybe sickly forces from inside our species, through the millions of years of us evolving.

The UK comment is very telling.
Everyone here admires the UK, but few ppl realize what a socialist s**thole the UK really is.
It's expected. It was a former Empire and now the socialists are feeding of the dying remnants of that Empire,
gutting itself from the inside effectively. Letting millions of foreigners migrate in and turn entire towns in the UK into foreign militarized territories. There are many videos online about this. One muslim even knocked out the teeth of a White UK citizen who went to a muslim town and was making a documentary. All he said was "hi", then the muslim said something in arabic and knocked his teeth out.

Wow

The crumbling of Western Civilization.

There's a very complicated and difficult situation in the UK, yes. I feel in general there is a lot of anger here -- and not just about socio-political issues and issues such as the one you mention. It's for those too but also just generally, even in small little ways. I find British people oddly quick to explode as if all that surface politeness is just a massive suppression of unhealthy responses. There is also still a lot of stigmatizing of anything like counseling, therapy, etc for "regular" people having emotional difficulties. Brits seem to think Americans are too touchy feely "talk to me about your feelings", but personally I think Brits are too "don't talk ANYTHING out!" and it causes them to be on edge even in normal daily life.

To be honest, I think the average American is better at handling themselves in terms of general emotional well being, than the average Brit who seems to have a lot simmering under the surface. I've had bad experiences with screwed up Americans and bad experiences with screwed up Brits, but the Brit incidences seem worse and more nasty.

It makes total sense for the police to side with the more believeable person.
Why? Because being a human, a subject, involves being subjective. If you have to evaluate a situation, there's always subjectivity involved.
I know it sucks not being believed, but this is how it works.
No need to demonize it and talk stories. Honestly, the process itself isn't really evil, it's just nasty people who (what's evil is up for debate anyway) use this mechanic to their advantage or police staff that's mean.

And this is not just a problem for people who are inpaired in that area, it's also the case for your average guy who has been made crazy by his mentally disordered girlfriend.
When he becomes desperate enough to call police, the girlfriend puts up her most emotional crocodile tear presentation, and more often than not, she will be believed and charges will be cast against HIM.

I mean putting up an act is a pretty logical thing.
You don't want to be targeted for punishment, and if you have the ability, you fake something (thereby manipulate other people's subjectivity) to evade it... and that's it.

Ok Earthling,

I'll remind you of your very "logical" reply when you go homeless, and are being chased and harrassed by police, and two-bit thugs on the streets.

And yes, I thought of what's in your reply before, it's nothing new.
It's kind of useless the same way philosophy is useless.

I need solutions, I need help, I need people on my side for one f*****g time in my life.
Seems I can never get that.

Which is why I contemplate suicide often these days.

This violent Planet of the Apes is too much for me to bear sometimes.

Oh my. I didn't assume you were as emotionally invested as this.
I'm sorry for having been insensitive to your feelings. Had I known this beforehand, I would just have kept my opinion to myself.
Maybe better to move this thread to the Haven section rather than keep in GAD.

I've noticed they respond well to calm, respectful people. This is where my traits actually work for me. I don't have a sense of danger about many things. So, I tend to remain calm at odd times. I was raised with manners and that helps since I can understand those rules.

I guess I have been fortunate that in all my encounters with police or authority figures I have always been believed almost instantly. The only time I have ever encountered any issues was with US Customs but I doubt that is because of my Aspie-ness and it wasn't that major. Hopefully that will continue into the future.

It's been a weird split for me -- police I've actually had very positive encounters with, airport customs etc the same.

But other figures of authority as far as power goes, such as landlords -- bad experiences. It's my landlord and fellow-tenant situations which never go well for me, even when I'm the one sticking by their lease agreement and "the other guy" is the one who isn't!