ok, it's just I can make eye contact easier with shades on because a person's eye contact I guess come across as a threat in my brain and causes anxiety.
If I make eye contact and I know they can't see "into my soul" basically I can stare them right in the eye with shades on because I know in my mind they can't see my eye, clearly enough anyway.
I'm fine looking at people's eyes, I just don't want anyone looking at my eye. It's like they are entering my mind/soul without asking.
(cool you're into space btw. I just got my first telescope, an Orion XT10i)
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Born in 1982; diagnosed with Asperger's in 2012.