Having worked with kids who are more on the severe end of the spectrum, I've also noticed that a handful will also have other health problems or often have poor hygenie or look childish. I think due to this/how there can be other deformities with severe medical issues is what your friend was referring to (and I've seen it)
However, it's not okay to say nor is it correct in many cases. I blame the media for this one and the inspiration porn that floats around.
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Lover of comics, tv, movies, video games, fuzzy blankets, animals, writing, crafting, and tumblr. I'm trying to figure out what is going on in my brain at the moment.
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Self-Identifying Aspie working towards getting an official diagnosis
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Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 175 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 59 of 200
You are very likely neurodiverse (Aspie)
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