I think it pays to keep in mind that a lot of neurotypical conversation and written language doesn't make sense(though some autistics can also be perpetrators of nonsense). That's some thing that wasn't explained when I first went to university. Neurotypicals have special instincts that allow them to disregard the snakey word salad that is human speech but those on the spectrum are looking for some clear logical data transfer so can easily become frustrated. Thats my experience any way.
_________________
I am a language teacher and amateur language scientist, I want to create a theory of language that can benefit autism spectrum persons as well as those with other neurological conditions. Communication with the NT world can be difficult, and I would love to hear what problems you have had trying to deal with such problems. If you want to talk about it please contact me.