Although I'm not that bad at making friends and communicating with people, I still seem to get on really well with people who only speak a little English, and all the social interactions come more smoothly. I have a Polish friend, and he is (as far as I know) NT, but finds speaking English rather hard, and only knows words you use the most, and you could just about have a small conversation with him, even though you've got to really concentrate on what he's trying to say. I thought this would be extra hard for an Aspie, because I've got to ''read'' his facial expression, tone of voice, and body language in order to get what he is trying to say, (although I'm not bad at ''reading'' non-verbal cues). But it's funny because I thought it would be tricker talking to a foreign person, but it's actually so easy for me. I don't feel shy at all, and I actually feel very dominent. I find it really, really easy to say ''no'' to him, but I find it hard to say ''no'' to English people. It's really strange. Also I find that foreign people don't judge me so much, and they really like me, and can't seem to see any weirdness at all. (I can usually tell when somebody is judging me).
Anyone else feel you can interact with foreign people better? Anyone know why exactly?
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