kraftiekortie wrote:
^^^Seems like you were a prodigy in at least some sense.
Do you still have that "epic tale?"
Something like the Plague would have been too much of a subject to tackle when I was a child. I liked nice, inspirational stories about great ballplayers much better. I even shoplifted a book about the 25th anniversary of the National Basketball Association, which had a bunch of stories about the best players from 1947 to 1972.
I bet you feel lovely about La Leche League. In the 1960s, especially early in the decade, very few parents breastfed their kids. You're probably the type who knew all the ideal angles which made mother and baby both very comfy.
Rather like Temple Grandin making cows comfortable when being vaccinated through knowing the optimal angle between needle and cow which caused the least pain for the cow.
Not mundane if it eases pain.
I am sure my mum threw it out. I must have been 9 or 10. I was such an oddball kid. But that was Sweden in the 80s and I was bilingual (and culturally different) and years ahead academically so nobody noticed.
Having a hard time socialising with other women made things like la leche league and meet-ups of that nature a bit of a mixed bag. In fact the downside of parenting has been that the main social outlet is other women and I have a hard time connecting with women unless they are academic bookish types. Especially women around here.... For me, it has been a lot of functional socialising where I sit through lunches and endless cups of tea feeling rather awkward whilst kids play. Now, when the children are older, I am able to get away for long enough to socialise with my male friends again and that has been really restorative and made me feel a bit more like myself again.
I would have done much better in a world of stay at home dads.
But i did manage to think myself to a totally painless childbirth....so labour was a pretty good special interest.
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