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03 Oct 2018, 5:36 pm

For the longest time, I've had the poorest social skills. I didn't talk until I was three when I was diagnosed with a pragmatic language delay. In 2005, I had a possible ASD diagnosis, however this was ruled out, partly because I was described as "very social, although not always appropriate". In a 2007 doctors report it was noted I had a tendency to not look at people in the eyes and I didn't understand body language. I also had difficulty expressing myself, especially when talking about feelings.

Another things that was noted was that I tended to have 6-7 tantrums a week and I had a tendency to resist activities that I didn't like. I also had some self-stimulatory behavior.

To this day, I have problems with non-verbal communication and I tend to get very overstimulated at times. I'm seen as rather strange by some of my peers and I feel like I could have undiagnosed Asperger's.



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03 Oct 2018, 6:37 pm

Depending on where you located, you, technically, cannot be diagnosed with Asperger's.

Saying this, it doesn't matter. You can be diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder, Level One, and it would mean at least somewhat the same thing. You would get the same accommodations.

What does your school think about you getting an assessment?



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03 Oct 2018, 6:39 pm

I live in Canada and I don't think my school would really be equipped for that.



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03 Oct 2018, 6:41 pm

What part of Canada? Maybe I can get some province-specific information for you.

Are you in "regular," or "honors" classes?



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03 Oct 2018, 6:53 pm

Welcome to wrong planet.

It is a common misconception that Autistic people cannot be extroverts. It is the poor ability to socialize and understand others that is a trait of autism. As a result of bad things happening when trying to socialize many autistics shy away from being social but introversion or shyness is not an autistic trait. This distinction is more understood then it was during the 2000's.


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03 Oct 2018, 7:01 pm

ASPartOfMe wrote:
Welcome to wrong planet.

It is a common misconception that Autistic people cannot be extroverts. It is the poor ability to socialize and understand others that is a trait of autism. As a result of bad things happening when trying to socialize many autistics shy away from being social but introversion or shyness is not an autistic trait. This distinction is more understood then it was during the 2000's.



This is me. I was extremely extroverted during my formative years; always playing too rough, pushing the other kids over, invading personal space... It wasn't until social interaction became communicative did I turn inwards and become socially anxious.



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03 Oct 2018, 7:23 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
What part of Canada? Maybe I can get some province-specific information for you.

Are you in "regular," or "honors" classes?


I'm in Alberta. We don't have honours or regular classes, but I'm currently in the highest level of classes offered (except for math, but that's because I want a better grade.)



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03 Oct 2018, 8:25 pm

You should explore the Autism Alberta website. They will have phone numbers and such.

Perhaps, in speaking to someone from the organization, you could get info about how to get a diagnosis.



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03 Oct 2018, 8:39 pm

How have you been progressing through the years. Are you able to put some of these negative attributes behind you and grow and develop integrating into society? Or are your challenges accumulating over time?


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03 Oct 2018, 9:24 pm

jimmy m wrote:
How have you been progressing through the years. Are you able to put some of these negative attributes behind you and grow and develop integrating into society? Or are your challenges accumulating over time?


I've progressed rather well, considering I function as a normal human being, however, I'm still really bad at social cues, especially while waiting for my turn in conversation. I also officially have ADHD but that doesn't seem to explain why I'm not the best at social cues. I'm also extremely clumsy.



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03 Oct 2018, 11:37 pm

DreamingOfClarity wrote:
I've progressed rather well, considering I function as a normal human being, however, I'm still really bad at social cues, especially while waiting for my turn in conversation. I also officially have ADHD but that doesn't seem to explain why I'm not the best at social cues. I'm also extremely clumsy.


That is a good sign for your future progress.


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04 Oct 2018, 2:22 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Depending on where you located, you, technically, cannot be diagnosed with Asperger's.

Saying this, it doesn't matter. You can be diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder, Level One, and it would mean at least somewhat the same thing. You would get the same accommodations.

What does your school think about you getting an assessment?


maybe I have misunderstood your post so apologies if so, but in Europe Asperger's is still diagnosed



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04 Oct 2018, 9:09 am

I said: "depending on where you're located." :)



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04 Oct 2018, 7:58 pm

So is it possible for me to have it?



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04 Oct 2018, 8:34 pm

Under the ICD-10 diagnostic manual, Asperger's exist.

Under the DSM-V, it does not.



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04 Oct 2018, 9:40 pm

I meant Autism in general



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