The worst thing a bully has done to you

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In grade 5 I was bullied by my so called "friends". They took advantage of the fact that I didn't understand that they were not being genuine and nice, or my lack of understanding of other social cues. One of the girls had been my best friend since we were toddlers, and she was the worst out of them all.
- she told the whole lunchroom I was being depressed at the school dance because of a boy (whom she also told. keep in mind i am not attracted to men, and i was only sitting down because it was loud and my feet hurt. And that boy was nice to me, so i thought i had a "crush" when in reality I just wanted to be friends. I did not understand feelings at all whoops)
- she would gang up on me and call me annoying, stupid, clingy, that type of stuff
- she would hit me
- she would manipulate me
- she would even lie to her mom and tell her i did bad things when i didn't
But that sort of made my brain shut down for 5 years and I developed selective mutism due to the social anxiety I had. I think nowadays, I get annoyed when people do nice things for me because I'm afraid they're just mocking me and I don't know.

Just want to say my parents never stopped bullying me and my whole family. Nothing I do is ever right. Like I didn't help them during my visit. I did every work they asked plus more, I don't know what they expected. The only thing I didn't do was giving my dad a bath, but that's because he refused. My back was sore for three weeks after that "vacation". Then I got into fault because they asked me to buy some chocolate for my dad, and will pay me later. I told them to not pay me for them, just bring me some of my favorite candy in exchange. They were outraged and thought I was taking advantage of them. I have looked up and my candies are cheaper than their chocolate. No idea why that would put someone through the roof. They also wouldn't listen to anything about my life. Everything is centered around their miseries. Now I'm in school again and beating the odds and got A+ in every class. They just say "We don't want to hear about it. They're no use unless you can get a good job and make big bucks." They think I'm an ultimate failure. And they're sure my kids will be losers and aren't worth their time. They got all offended that my first son might want to work for a year and gain some life experience before college...etc They think my whole family are lazy, lying pieces of filth. This screaming phone call lasted three hours and I tried all sorts of way to distract myself. But it still hurt. Why the f**k do I care about them and keep dialing their number dutifully?

False friends are the worst. I had a "friend" once who was a real user and also a drama queen. I'm glad I don't associate with her anymore. The people I associate with now are much nicer.

Maybe when they made me sit on the floor between the boys table and the girls table until the janitor let me sit at the peanut free table?

I had a bully punch me in the lower belly and exclaim "i hope you can't have kids now! the world doesn't need more of you". I had someone try to stab me. I had rocks thrown at me. and the verbal abuse never ended

relatable. i was super gullible, so that was like having a bullseye on my back or something.

Being jumped right as I left the gym hallway by 2 kids on the 2nd day of school... Having an apple thrown right at my head (hit me in the ear)... daily harassment... sexual harassment when I was on the football team... being forced to walk a different way home every day so I don't get jumped... Could go on a long ways.

I am very glad I was a large kid, people tried to beat me up a few times but I won, and they stuck to hurting animals, insects, and verbal abuse instead. I would of rather me then than animals though...

being big didn't save me from the verbal abuse and threats. once a bully, always a bully, I have found. there is not a hell hot enough for those irredeemable sociopaths.

Be comforted that bullies tend to go to jail when they grow up.

Most of the bullies I know did go to jail and I know that at least one died in prison.

except for the ones that become POTUS and VPOTUS and GOP congressmen and senators and such.

I personally don't want bad things to happen to my bullies. I want them to know and recognize what they did was messed up, grow as a person and never do it again.

That's how I feel too.

Silly social games undertaken by idiots...

That is all bullying amounts to.

Feel happy and secure in the knowledge that, well,l if they are the future of the human race, we are all f*****g doomed!

May God help us...

Or not..I think he gave up or something. Don't blame him!

You see, I think the biggest reason I did not care about bullying in grade school but cared a lot more about it as a teenager was that I was carefree as a kid and was way too disillusioned by so many things I took for granted in childhood not turning out to be real to not care about what others said in adolescence. Looking back, my caring about being bullied may only have been secondary. I was grieving that so many things I thought were real, turned out to be not. viewtopic.php?t=367132&p=8083298#p8083298