I've heard Switzerland has a very different mindset of the welfare system than in the rest of Europe and in the US. The expectation is that family will take care of extended family members, including grown children, siblings, etc. and that if one tries to get welfare benefits, they will require the family members to reimburse it. The taxes in Switzerland are also much lower, with a top tax of like 5 to 10% on high incomes. I also know Switzerland operates totally on a private health system. If nobody in your extended family can support you, Switzerland does have some welfare, but its really strict and people not quickly becoming self sufficient typically end up institutionalized. My advice would be to try to help out your family some with chores around the house so you can be seen as useful, like do the laundry, vacuum the floors, do shopping trips for them if its possible, etc. so they see that you living in the house makes their lives easier, so they will want you to stay. You can still be yourself, but try to pick your battles so you aren't constantly ending up in arguments with them, as that could make them want to kick you out of the house.