I think that there are aspects and severity levels that can be disabling. (sometimes severely) I also believe that there are aspects that can be beneficial and enabling. IMO a lot depends on the individual persons luck of the genetic draw, and the family and culture they are raised in, including how much support or hindrance they experience.
Personally, I feel overall fortunate because of some intellectual and (mostly good) sensory luck. On the other hand, the bullying and social difficulties really sucked, as does the very bad psych help over the years. Depression, GAD, probable C-PTSD - those are disabling and probably significantly impacted by cultural crap related to my unknown ASD. (which if known in the 60's actually would have been very unlikely to have helped.)
Do I think that many, many autistic people should receive help for disabilities? Absolutely, just as I believe that all human beings should receive universal health care, including mental health care as needed. There needs to be a constant consideration of and provision for people's needs and improving their ability to become the best human they can be within their own standards.
More importantly even, is that our cultures need to evolve to help, comfort and accept human beings. We need to stop the nasty judgmentalism based on things people have no control over. This doesn't mean to accept and countenance harmful behavior towards others, but to do no harm and to actively do good.
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AQ 39
Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 136 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 77 of 200
You are very likely neurodiverse (Aspie)