Summer_Twilight wrote:
Hi:
I ran into a woman who works in another department which is two floors down below mine who works with another former friend of mine who is also on the spectrum. I asked her how he was doing and she proceeded to tell me about how he's "Like a big kid with his humor and his superheroes and that it's cute that he's writing a novel." When I talked to her, it sounded very phony.
Some people are being phony and some peoples mannerism and 'forced' smile makes them appear phony.
I agree that calling people cute or a big kid tends to be a mix of affection and condescension. I work with a lady on the spectrum who calls our boss cute for a number of reasons.
Some people are big kids and I'm one of them