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22 Jul 2007, 2:26 am

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8O Dang, that's great. I talked to him about it today, and he said he wouldn't try to ride it because he didn't need to, and he didn't want to smash his head open. So how can I deal with that?


Actually, that's what I would tell to someone who tried to persuade me to get a motorbike license. Of course, I think your cousin is wrong to apply the argument to riding a real bike, but if he is just not interested, that's it.

The only practical approach I can think of is to find out whether he wants the mobility a bike would give him. If yes, ask him to find a way to be sure he wouldn't smash open his head. You could try to suggest the approach I outlined, using the argument that walking or running along sitting on the bike (with the saddle low enough that both feet can be flat on the ground without stretching) will be safer than doing it without the bike. Walking on two feet is a rather precarious balancing act, a series of controlled falls, really. It would be safer if he had the bike to give him permanent contact with the ground. Refer him to this picture: http://www.karl-drais.de/gh030626.html Converting a bike into its historical precursor is easy, and he should still be able to move about with greater speed and less effort than if he just walks and runs. You could even try to sell him the idea as an alternative to the bicycle. If he gains enough confidence, he will ask to proceed to pedalling. If he doesn't, he still gains something.

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....that....is genius...I'll definitely tell him about this, he's smart, so this will probably be right up his alley...



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23 Jul 2007, 12:59 pm

I like bike riding. Really though, I didn't learn how to do it until I was 5 or 7 (I don't remember which it was). I had a trike before then, so I couldn't really fall over on that, but an actual bike didn't work until that time. The only reason I learned at all was because I decided I wanted to...


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23 Jul 2007, 4:03 pm

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Hi, I'm a new member, and my cousin has autism...anyways, I'm trying to teach him to ride a bike...been trying for close to a year now. The thing is, he won't try to balance or anything. Has anybody had any similar experiences, maybe some tips?



My husband is an Aspie and he had a terrible time learning to ride a bike. He ran into fences and curbs and was eventually found unconscious in the middle of the street after a bad fall! He said learninghow to balance on the bike was the hardest part.

But for some reason he just wouldn't give up and eventually became a professional mountain biker! He primarily excells at uphill riding, though, and to this day has a hard time with the descents. He says he just doesn't have the coordination to go downhill at high speeds.

He says that bike riding clears his head and relieves his anxiety. He also says that the physical pain he endures on a bike is nothing compared to the daily mental hardship of being an Aspie in an NT world.

Plus, cycling has become one of his fixations and he can talk for hours about particular cyclists and their various racing victories and defeats. He also enjoys building and repairing bicycles.

Perhaps your cousin could become interested in bicycles as machines (they are the most efficient man made machine, you know) and some of the trivia related to cycling, then trying to actually ride a bike may become more appealing.

And for some inspiration, here's a famous Aspie riding a bike: (I know, I know, it hasn't necessarily been proven that Al was an Aspie, but the sake of argument, let's just assume he was.)

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01 Aug 2007, 12:29 am

IS there any way to spark an interest in biking for him? Maybe that's the problem, he just needs to find a way to get interested.



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01 Aug 2007, 1:16 am

i know one extemely aspie-like character who cannot ride a bike or drive a car.
He heven has a comic called "walking man"
i feel kinda bad for him..he always seems sunburnt and dehydrated.



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01 Aug 2007, 1:22 am

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It's the third time I answer that question. It seems to come up regularly, but the next person who wants to know has no reasonable way to find the information. If the suggestion below works even for someone with really poor motor skills, you could write an article and give it to Alex to stick on the front page. The question will come up again, sooner or later. Here I just copy my last answer, aimed at teaching a kid to ride a bike. You adapt the details according to age.



why doesn't this forum have a search feature???



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01 Aug 2007, 1:31 am

Training wheels sounds like a good idea, until he's comfortable enough with it to move to 2 wheels. Not everyone can ride a bike, either, or do it well. Maybe try and encourage his strong areas ( you said he's a good wrestler) so thatg he'll feel good about himself there.
I learned to ride my bike when i was 7 ( a late 7). But no one taught me how to stop. So I was riding in the parking lot of the apartment complex where we lived and rode right into our neighbor's new Pontiac Firebird. I scraped myself up good, and was annoyed that our neighbor seemed concerened only about her car while I sat there bleeding. Knowing what I know about cars and how expensive body work is, I don't feel so bad anymore about her reaction...



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01 Aug 2007, 1:06 pm

This seems to be a recurring subject. Here is an instruction manual on how to ride a bike.

http://asperger.dissidentcongress.com/bikeride.html



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02 Aug 2007, 9:10 pm

bc1 wrote:
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It's the third time I answer that question. It seems to come up regularly, but the next person who wants to know has no reasonable way to find the information. If the suggestion below works even for someone with really poor motor skills, you could write an article and give it to Alex to stick on the front page. The question will come up again, sooner or later. Here I just copy my last answer, aimed at teaching a kid to ride a bike. You adapt the details according to age.



why doesn't this forum have a search feature???


It does, sort of. On the left, all the way past the ads and "people online", there's a Google search for this site.


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03 Aug 2007, 3:37 am

I am 16 and still can't ride a bike. I got my first bike when I was 12, it had training wheels. I would still put my feet on the ground when I rode it, even with the training wheels on. When I was 13 I decided to take them off, I couldn't even ride down a hill, with my feet still on the ground without falling off.
I have tried a few times after then, but in the end, I just realised that Riding a bike just simply isn't something i'm good at.


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03 Aug 2007, 2:08 pm

Jackal, does your cousin enjoy the outdoors and is there any neat bike trails in the area? If he enjoys the outdoors, show him or tell him about all the cool bike trails he could enjoy if he learned to ride his bike. Also, it might help to explain to him that learning to ride a bike gives you independence-my Dad routinely bikes 8-9 miles to work, and last summer sometimes biked to a job that was 15-18 miles away.
Riding bikes is so much fun! I can't ride mine for awhile, though-my tire exploded on a bike ride Sunday. :(



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03 Aug 2007, 5:16 pm

I think the only way an aspie will be able to ride a bike is if it’s something he wants to do. It was something that I wanted to do, so I asked questions, used training wheels, made sure that I knew what people were talking about in terms of centering my weight - then one day I just did it. Training wheels don’t really do anything in regards to riding the bike, so maybe it’s better that he doesn’t want to use them. Learning to ride a skateboard was similar, except that skateboards were very uncommon on the East coast in those days, so it turned into a multi-year process for me just to find one.


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12 Jan 2008, 10:21 am

I cannot remember the exact age I started to ride a bike but it was about 6, I don't think I ever used training wheels but while I could ride I was never very good at it. I stopped riding when I was about 10 and did not really ride a bike again until I got a new upright road bike in 2001. I rode this two to three thousand miles between then and jan 2005. While I could ride it I was never very good at balancing it and had several accidents.
In jan 2005 I gave up with the upright and went out and bought one of these http://www.ice.hpv.co.uk/ . It was a revolution, so much more comfortable, no balance required, no butt pain, no neck ache even on a 128 mile ride.
Now after over 20,000 miles of laid back riding I won't be going back to the upright. I cannot understand why more people don't ride trikes.



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12 Jan 2008, 4:08 pm

I have AS and learnt to ride a bike when I was 9 (without stablizers) and I like to do long rides... like 12 miles and upwards each time I go out on it, has become one of my big interests.



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12 Jan 2008, 8:43 pm

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I think it took me 2 years to learn how to ride a bike.


3 years for me. Just like thumb sucking, my father tried to fix the problem through humiliation.


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12 Jan 2008, 8:44 pm

I never ever could learn how to ride a bike, my family bought me a huge tricicle wow i misspelled that haha, and i couldn't still push it sometimes, so i had ppl petal and i sat in the basket lol, best times of my life hahaha.


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