lol, I get frustrated over the appearance thing as well. I find it somewhat humorous how it works, even though I don't understand it. General observation, SOME people just prefer talking to people they find appealing to the eye, and of course, I guess clothing falls into that.
You can be the smartest person in the world, you could have the answer to everything they could ever want to know, and they will refuse to talk to you because you are wearing a dress and sneakers or something of that sort. Yet, they will talk and carry on the most pointless conversations, walk around blindly, make comments about others, and so on with someone who dresses in an "appealing" fashion to them. I tend to have very few friends due to this actually.
I have actually been asked before to stop rocking, or to dress differently, simply because someone gets bored with the way I dress, or they are embarrassed by the way I walk or stand, etc., when they are around others that they know are quick to judge. I do tend to worry a little about what people think about me, but not to the extent that it really causes me any embarrassment, it just makes me feel awkward at times. I don't really understand how someone can really feel embarrassed to be around someone who is comfortable enough with themselves to really not care what others think.
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