FranzOren wrote:
Symptoms of Schizoid Personality Disorder that looks like ASD:
* They have difficulty relating to others. (Looks like lack of social skills)
* They are aloof and show little emotion. (Looks like problems with social-emotional reciprocity)
* They might daydream and/or create vivid fantasies of complex inner lives. (Fantasies, especially about imaginary friends is very common in ASD).
Often the language of mental health reflects the perspective (and biases) of those diagnosing. I can relate to the feelings of neurotypicals by analyzing my experiencing and comparing, even if our desires differ. For example, they tend to connect to people the way I do with interests, so I imagine our joys with each are pretty similar. But, since they desire the company of others, and I rarely desire their company, I have "difficulty relating." In other words: difficulty giving them pleasure. I do not exist to give them pleasure, though.
Regarding emotion, I experience strong emotions and will show them my own way, which they don't understand. This is due to differences in being. If I'm held up to their standard, then yes, I show little emotion. But, I'm different, so why are they a standard I should be measured by? It's flattering to them to do this. I could also do this, and say they ignore the world to spend time on empty conversations; enjoy childlike, superfluous affect; and love being imprecise. But, I doubt that's how they see their experience, and it's unfair to expect them to be like me, or share my view.