would you become neurotypical if given the opportunity?

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would you want to become neurotypical if given the opportunity?
yes (level 1 autistic) 23%  23%  [ 8 ]
yes (level 2 - 3 autistic) 9%  9%  [ 3 ]
yes (self diagnosed) 6%  6%  [ 2 ]
yes (neurodivergent in a way aside from asd) 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
no (level 1 autistic) 40%  40%  [ 14 ]
no (level 2 - 3 autistic) 14%  14%  [ 5 ]
no (self diagnosed) 9%  9%  [ 3 ]
no (neurodivergent in a way aside from asd) 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Total votes : 35

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12 Dec 2023, 11:37 pm

Related to a discussion in another thread.

I feel that not being autistic would make me an entirely different person, so I would rather not change in that aspect.


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12 Dec 2023, 11:49 pm

No - Level 2/3 autistic


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13 Dec 2023, 5:22 am

Only if I hate the world enough to either join their dysfunctional shite they call a system, or to have the means to terrorize those who are in it.

Only if I'm consumed with vengeance, bitterness
and envy, riddled with crippling mental illness.
Only if I perceive myself as a victim and perpetually be a victim.


I'd definitely be a different person -- better functioning human, but likely not a better person.
I know, the darkness I have as a human would likely be carried over such opportunity and translated into something more actively malicious than apathetic for just having the means.


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13 Dec 2023, 11:22 am

https://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=417818&start=16#p9413614


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13 Dec 2023, 11:47 am

I've said it before and I'll say it again - if it wasn't reversible I wouldn't, because I'm fairly happy as I am and it might make me feel worse, but if it was reversible then I would, because it might make me feel better. I don't see how anybody could know what becoming NT would feel like, though I see how a ND person who was unhappy and strongly felt that their plight was down to their disability might want to bet on making the permanent jump, and I can see how one who was happy would be much more wary. It would be a gamble, like "burning" your cards, but then cards is only a game with limited stakes, while becoming permanently NT would be gambling your future.

Anyway I can't answer the poll question accurately because it's not specified whether the change would be reversible or not. I think the poll results will be some kind of a measure of our pain.



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13 Dec 2023, 2:45 pm

If other people did it before me, I probably would. I’m completely unsuccessful at the moment. I pretty much have no life or accomplishments to be proud of. Unless you include inspiration porn type stuff.



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13 Dec 2023, 3:01 pm

Anyone thinking ASD can be cured or otherwise removed shows a fundamental lack of understanding of the condition. You may as well wish yourself out of existence...it would amount to the same thing.



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13 Dec 2023, 4:45 pm

Sure, but this is hypothetical only.


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13 Dec 2023, 7:13 pm

DanielW wrote:
Anyone thinking ASD can be cured or otherwise removed shows a fundamental lack of understanding of the condition. You may as well wish yourself out of existence...it would amount to the same thing.

I guess I might if I start feeling extra suicidal.



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13 Dec 2023, 7:20 pm

I'm the opposite, I'm travelling this life as an NT but I suspect if I get an formal diagnosis I might actually be Level 1 Autistic

But I kinda don't want to be a "Rachel Dolezal" of the autistic community



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13 Dec 2023, 7:49 pm

Well, there are some features of my brain that I wish I could get rid of, but there are also some pretty cool features I wouldn't want to lose. Tourette's is a different story. I'd get rid of that crap today if I could.



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13 Dec 2023, 9:26 pm

Nien!


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13 Dec 2023, 10:34 pm

Nah


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13 Dec 2023, 10:37 pm

I'm not sure how I could be neurotypical, given how much of me is defined by autism, even prior to being diagnosed.

That said, if I could take a pill and wake up with average executive function, less monotropy, average ability to form attachments, etc I'd do it.

I don't care about being NT, but reducing the impairments that make me disabled would be great.


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14 Dec 2023, 12:34 am

I was diagnosed before there were different levels, probably would be level 2 if I were re-assessed today.

I would. Yes, my autism affects just about everything about me and every aspect of my life. Yes, I would be a completely different person without it. But I don't like the person I am, and I'd give a heck of a lot to be able to function in society. I don't really get anything beneficial from my autism, but plenty of limitations I want to be rid of.


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14 Dec 2023, 2:06 am

Why should I/we change? Why not make all the NT's a bit autistic instead? :P


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