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19 Oct 2007, 12:40 am

Curiosity
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19 Oct 2007, 2:27 am

Open mindness, very intellegent. Follwng the rules, taking things seriously, honesty, seeing the world differently, creativness, focusing on an interest, and knowing a lot about it, that's all I can think of for now.




2ukenkerl:

Where in the criteria does it say we look younger than ourselves?



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19 Oct 2007, 2:30 am

ZARATHUSTRA wrote:
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For me its the focus with which i can pursue my main passion in life(philosophy), which provides my life with both purpose and pleasure


Read some Sartre. Lost in a cold, unfeeling universe.
Try reading some Nietzche. And then tell me what the f*ck he's on about. Unter und Uber!


Um.. most people who have read Sartre have read Nietzsche. Its sort of the basis for Sartre's philosophy.

Check out the signature down there too -->

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19 Oct 2007, 2:36 am

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Never catching VD, because you can't get laid.


Omg... hahaha


I wish we could laugh with you gals. :oops:

HECK, given how promiscuous so many are, I don't know if I even want to try. The chances are great that I could catch a VD *****AND***** be left with a huge bill for alimony and maybe child support. NO THANKS!


Well...

Life is like the lottery. In this case though, the "jackpot" is having your tools fall off (Im exaggerating, atleast I hope I am..). So you don't want to get the (un)lucky 1 in 500

So, I would guess, make your decisions wisely :wink:



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19 Oct 2007, 3:20 am

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Yeah, looking younger than one's age is a common AS characteristic.

I happened to be called a babyface by others. Especially during the times where I was thinner.



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19 Oct 2007, 4:47 am

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Always looking much younger than I really am. Usually figuring things out more quickly than others. The ability to teach myself many things without formal instruction.


That's amazing - but why do you think that these traits have anything to do with Aperger's Syndrome? Why does anyone think that these apparent beautiful aspects of themselves are present in their lives due to the autistic spectrum necessarily and not to the inherent nature of their soul - the innermost part of their being - a place which is neither obscured by disorder or tainted with confusion?


I don't know about always looking younger, though supposedly I now look 10-20 years younger than I am, but the other things fit ME! I guess we think they are autistic because:

1. Its so common here.
2. It is in the DSM.
3. It is logical.
4. Most NTs AREN'T like that!


Then may I introduce you to the possibility that AS'ers are budding psychics with a developing 6th sense and NT's are still behind with only 5.

I think that about covers it all along the spectrum.


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19 Oct 2007, 6:20 am

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I developed a passion about comparative religion when I was about 10 or 11 years old. I am now 51 years old and a sociology professor specializing in religious studies.
How cool is that!


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19 Oct 2007, 7:10 am

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Open mindness, very intellegent. Follwng the rules, taking things seriously, honesty, seeing the world differently, creativness, focusing on an interest, and knowing a lot about it, that's all I can think of for now.




2ukenkerl:

Where in the criteria does it say we look younger than ourselves?


It DOESN'T! I wasn't the originator of the idea. Frankly, I am HAPPY it isn't a criteria. I thought I look older, and I am not good at determining age.



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19 Oct 2007, 9:36 am

Wish I could say that about a youthful look!

I look 70 about now and with weight lost I am getting that chicken neck effect!

I always looked older than others, got served in bars at 15 or 16 years of age in Denver, CO.


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19 Oct 2007, 10:09 am

There are several, although I think the biggest one would have to be the passion which leads to having specific talents in whatever it is you do.

The other lesser advantages would be being less affected by emotions; it may mean being insensitive, but at least the emotions won't lead you to jumping off a cliff. You can handle most situations more rationally and in a more level-headed way. As has already been mentioned, we are unique, and less susceptible to sex or its problems (well, some of us), and I guess being insensitive means we might actually be more rational.


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19 Oct 2007, 10:46 am

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I developed a passion about comparative religion when I was about 10 or 11 years old. I am now 51 years old and a sociology professor specializing in religious studies.


That's interesting, since I did the same thing. I would bring all of these books w/ me to class and my teachers would get annoyed because I wasn't paying attention to what they were teaching. I felt that the stuff I was studying was far more important. However, I went into psych, for obvious reasons ;-)....


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19 Oct 2007, 12:04 pm

The disadvantages far far far outweigh the advantages.



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19 Oct 2007, 12:13 pm

Being like the child in "The Emperor's New Clothes".....



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20 Oct 2007, 3:00 am

Things I think are advantages:

* Unbelievable focus.

I can focus on my work so much that I lose track of time, forget to eat and sleep, and don't even notice other people. This lets me get a lot of work done.

* Perfectionism.

If something is not done to a high quality, that seems like a problem, and I have an urge to fix it.

* An open mind.

If someone told me that the sky was green (and they seemed serious), I would check. If the emptiness above is now a brilliant emerald, then they are right. That's all. I would of course like to know why, but there's no need to panic and no point in denying it.

* Curiosity

I like to know how and why things work, and what's over that fence, and what's behind the locked doors. I want to learn to pick locks just so I can open random doors.

* An ability to make intuitive leaps.

With some math/algebra/calculus/geometry problems, I just write the problem down and look at it. I can usually see the steps to follow to solve the problem in a few seconds, or even the answer to the problem itself. I always have trouble showing my working. Sometimes I don't have any, or don't know what it is, despite knowing the answer.


Now, aspergers is not a requirement for these traits. These are just qualities that I've noticed in myself and other aspies, that not many NT people have. I think that the advantages of aspergers more than make up for the disadvantages, but the disadvantages can cause difficulties sometimes.

Then again, every aspies has aspergers in a different way to all the rest.



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20 Oct 2007, 9:17 am

Good vocabulary
Good research abilities
Attention to detail
Looking younger than my age
Responsible
Love of animals
Ability to remember and retain facts from things I learned long ago and being able to recall them when asked about them.

I would say my main disadvantages are a tendency to do dumb stuff and a lack of confidence during job interviews. I am working hard to remedy both situations.



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20 Oct 2007, 10:44 am

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The disadvantages far far far outweigh the advantages.


IMO, the disadvantages of being an Aspie are largely a consequence of being a neurological minority. Perhaps it is analogous to being left-handed in a right-handed world.


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