Please read this "Children Afflicted With Autism"

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26 Mar 2012, 1:58 am

I started reading this and thought...WTH? I wish those who do not have autism would stop speaking for those who do.
My son is not "afflicted with autism"...there is no "horrid and cruel despair"...except of course, because of society and their need to make everyone be the same...because of society's need to make such statements about them...sigh...ok, I will stop.

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26 Mar 2012, 3:28 am

That article makes me want to puke. I'm not afflicted with anything, autism isn't a life sentence and I feel that society needs to get over itself. I don't like the way that society is going with these types of articles and their precious Autism Speaks which raises their money on genetic research which will lead to genetic screening, which will lead to the abortion of future autistics. We haven't gone forward at all. We've gone backwards. This type of thinking is reminiscent of the Holocaust of Nazi Germany in the 30s and 40s. We're going backwards.


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26 Mar 2012, 3:32 am

I also apologize if my above statement seems harsh to some members. I had to get this off my chest, because I've had the misfortune of meeting too many peers who thought that I should have been aborted. It's not a good feeling when your own generation doesn't want you alive.


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26 Mar 2012, 5:02 am

That's why I feel like this forum is so important. There are educated professionals speaking on our behalf, but we have a voice, and can speak for ourselves right here. There are people who can barely speak that are regulars on here, that have MUCH to say. We can be our own voice. Here, what we say can make a difference.

We come from all over the world. We are different races, cultures, and religions. But we have something special in common that makes us a unique people, and even there, we are all as different as snow flakes, no two exactly alike. Yet I find myself in so many of the posts I read here. I'm grateful for everyone here.

There are parents who are getting online, doing everything they can for their kids, sometimes they come here looking for answers. What are we saying to them? What impression are we giving? I hope every time we get on here, we see it as an opportunity to be part of a cause, because every thing said here goes down in history, and our voice is being heard. If it is a voice of dissonance, then the scientists and the board members will win the ears of those listening. But if we speak together, the world will listen.

*the applause lamp is now lit*


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26 Mar 2012, 5:09 am

CockneyRebel wrote:
I also apologize if my above statement seems harsh to some members. I had to get this off my chest, because I've had the misfortune of meeting too many peers who thought that I should have been aborted. It's not a good feeling when your own generation doesn't want you alive.


It's understandable. It was rude to tell you should have been aborted



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26 Mar 2012, 5:18 am

"A virtual torture chamber from which one has no escape" ?!

Is she talking Autism or my place of work? In either case its at a minimum, very melodramatic.



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26 Mar 2012, 6:45 am

Aharon wrote:
That's why I feel like this forum is so important. There are educated professionals speaking on our behalf, but we have a voice, and can speak for ourselves right here. There are people who can barely speak that are regulars on here, that have MUCH to say. We can be our own voice. Here, what we say can make a difference.

We come from all over the world. We are different races, cultures, and religions. But we have something special in common that makes us a unique people, and even there, we are all as different as snow flakes, no two exactly alike. Yet I find myself in so many of the posts I read here. I'm grateful for everyone here.

There are parents who are getting online, doing everything they can for their kids, sometimes they come here looking for answers. What are we saying to them? What impression are we giving? I hope every time we get on here, we see it as an opportunity to be part of a cause, because every thing said here goes down in history, and our voice is being heard. If it is a voice of dissonance, then the scientists and the board members will win the ears of those listening. But if we speak together, the world will listen.

*the applause lamp is now lit*

huray!!
i would like to say there is a part of me that hates to even give articals like this anymore views, but ur right. sometimes we need to see the whole picture and talior are message for those struggling and looking for help.
and CockneyRebel if the people around you don't appreciate you then be glad to see there back and not there face. i have found in my life if i don't like something in my life it will go away on it's own if you let it.


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26 Mar 2012, 6:55 am

whatamess wrote:
I started reading this and thought...WTH? I wish those who do not have autism would stop speaking for those who do.
My son is not "afflicted with autism"...there is no "horrid and cruel despair"...except of course, because of society and their need to make everyone be the same...because of society's need to make such statements about them...sigh...ok, I will stop.

Children Afflicted With Autism


Yes, it's so terrible that their parents can't brag about their university degrees and their huge salaires in the future...



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26 Mar 2012, 8:17 am

Just skimming that article was torture. How demeaning.



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26 Mar 2012, 9:26 am

What irritates me the most are statements like the one about how heartbreaking it apparently is that "some" children with autism cannot express themselves.

Because often this statement comes together with the assumption that adults and those children and adults who can talk can express what they feel.

As if talking with your voice or writing or typing = expressing yourself rather than echoing other people trying to somehow make people understand and to use your communicational abilities to make others aware of even most basic things such as that you're thirsty when you're thirsty.


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26 Mar 2012, 10:13 am

I couldn't stand to read past the second segment. I feel immense anger at whoever wrote that!



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26 Mar 2012, 11:37 am

I don't think I'm "afflicted" with autism... I get "afflicted" with the Flu or a sore toe nail. Very patronizing or even rude, I'd say, to classify a group as "afflicted". I decline to read the article based on the title :wink:

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26 Mar 2012, 11:39 am

nostromo wrote:
"A virtual torture chamber from which one has no escape" ?!

Is she talking Autism or my place of work? In either case its at a minimum, very melodramatic.


That is probably how I would describe this society.


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26 Mar 2012, 1:38 pm

Well, there are a few who match that description, but this is so way OVERBOARD & as said, melodramtic that no wonder its hacking a number of off. ROYALLY!!

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26 Mar 2012, 6:26 pm

I preferred 'goldielocks and three bears' less fantasy in it.



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26 Mar 2012, 6:40 pm

I was too busy shuddering at the horrible forced colloquial voice to take in the content.
Give me my tactile senstitivity any day over that; at least most of the time it doesn't make me want to rip my own brain out.


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