magic wrote:
Torley_Wong wrote:
So, next question is: is fake smiling always a bad thing? If sometime expresses happiness for you and they're always using a "fake smile", doest that mean you should whup them for their insincerity
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I don't think so.
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A fake smile is not necessarily a false smile. I smile often "fakely", because natural smile doesn't come easily for me. That doesn't mean that I try to deceive people. And even if somebody smiles just to create a good mood, what is wrong with that?
Hm, one thing I've had personal problems with is the following. I'm confused between "fake" and "false". Don't worry I have nooo problem with you smiling however you wanna smile, but this is an example:
Someone feigning excitement at something that they are in fact bored with or just "pretending along". They may smile just to be polite, but perhaps it's indicative of something wrong under the soil and in the roots, so to speak. Someone who smiles for you while applauding, while inside, their heart is envious and they are doing a "grin and bare it" robot routine.
I know this dips into the lake of the "white lie" but... if you really feel happiness inside, it's okay to smile however you want. However, when I see that slick snake-oil salesman grin trying to scam me of my money (which has happened more than once before), then my reaction is to be defensive because the other person is smiling with negative intent -- as strange as that sounds!
So, "fake smile" then seems to be a bit of a misnomer.
But here's a VERY real smile for you