svaughan wrote:
I suppose it comes down to how Aspergers affects you but if we're not so bad on the social side, not so blunt, maybe just quiet and thoughtful we can come across as knowledgeable and intelligent.
This is often construed as being condescending to someone who is more interested in having his or her feelings acknowledged.
I've had many conversations where the other person was just trying to vent his or her dissatisfaction with something, and who then became offended when I offered a workable solution first.
An example would be where someone is insisting on an apology for a perceived insult while I am trying to get the facts of the situation - they get angrier and angrier because I'm not apologizing, and because I am disassembling their argument with logic.
Another example might be where a woman is claiming to have been assaulted several years ago - long after any material evidence shoulda/woulda/coulda been collected. Without evidence, she has only her claim. She is upset, distraught, and possibly suicidal, yet all any investigator can do is take her statement. She wants to know why no one believes her, while everyone else is looking for a
reason to believe her.
Feelings first, then business.
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