I feel life is a balance act between these four equally important things: (1) doing what is necessary to survive, (2) protecting ourselves from unhappiness, (3) acquiring true understanding and appreciation of the universe in which we exist, and (4) doing good things in this universe.
"Work and wealth" seem relevant only to the extent that these facilitate one or more of the above four points, beyond that "work and wealth" seem counterproductive.
If you feel your life is "hell", that's probably because you feel you have no control over it at all. But you do always have at least some control!
(A) You control what you DO (and don't do), so concentrate on doing things when you feel you're a helpless ping pong ball tossed around by forces outside of you. (B) Unless you're in an extremely horrible situation, you control your physical and mental integrity. You can make clear to people when they're crossing your lines, hopefully by talking with them, but if necessary by showing them that hurting you comes with a price they don't want to pay. (C) You control where you are. If there are people who persistently attempt to exercise control over your life, you can remove them from your life by going elsewhere. This may not be true if you're younger than, say, 18; if that's the case, just be patient and look forward to a life in which it's never going to be as bad again as it is now.
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There is nothing that is uniquely and invariably human.