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02 Apr 2017, 12:10 pm

I can't freaking take it anymore! Getting yelled at by my grandparents for being in the bathroom for 15 mins. They got all mad at me and started yelling. Its stupid and ridiculous! I can't help it! I'm freaking mad at them right now.



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02 Apr 2017, 1:17 pm

Why do you spend 15 minutes in the bathroom?


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02 Apr 2017, 1:20 pm

If you get constipated like me then you're likely to spend 15 minutes in the bathroom.


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02 Apr 2017, 1:35 pm

That's ridiculous, if it takes 15 minutes it takes 15 minutes....

Is it the only bathroom, and did one of them really need to go or something? Or just hassling you about it.


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02 Apr 2017, 1:56 pm

League_Girl wrote:
Why do you spend 15 minutes in the bathroom?

Taking a dumb.



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02 Apr 2017, 2:19 pm

They're old people. They might have to pee pretty often. If one
can't get in the bathroom right away, they might have to go really bad. That's why they might be irritable.



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02 Apr 2017, 2:59 pm

Water, water, water, lettuce, avocado, olive oil - reduce the cheese and the meats.



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02 Apr 2017, 3:34 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
They're old people. They might have to pee pretty often. If one
can't get in the bathroom right away, they might have to go really bad. That's why they might be irritable.


Well either way yelling at someone wont make them poop any faster...if anything that'll just make it take longer because you might tense up lol.


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02 Apr 2017, 3:48 pm

you should not take on the toilet for too long, it will give you hemorroids


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02 Apr 2017, 3:54 pm

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you should not take on the toilet for too long, it will give you hemorroids


I thought it was trying to force it that contributes to hemorrhoids, not the amount of time you spend on the toilet. Which would mean pressuring someone to 'hurry' and poop is more encouraging of hemorrhoids than taking your time.


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02 Apr 2017, 7:48 pm

I agree Corny shouldn't be yelled at.



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02 Apr 2017, 7:50 pm

If it takes you 15 minutes to poo, then you need to take fiber pills or use a stool softener or change your diet.


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03 Apr 2017, 3:07 am

League_Girl wrote:
If it takes you 15 minutes to poo, then you need to take fiber pills or use a stool softener or change your diet.

In case it can be psychological + environment. i cant do it if theres much noise or people talking outside or if im feeling anxious.


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03 Apr 2017, 8:22 am

I wonder if your grandparents bring newspapers/magazines in when they have to "go."

I've known many "old" people who do this.

They turn their bathroom session into a reading session.



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03 Apr 2017, 10:49 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
They're old people. They might have to pee pretty often. If one
can't get in the bathroom right away, they might have to go really bad. That's why they might be irritable.

No not that old. One's 54 and the other is 60. I don't consider that old.



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03 Apr 2017, 10:53 am

Well the reason why it takes me long. Is once I get it out. I scrub it out. And maybe I over scrub it. And go too extreme with it. Because it seems like I go overboard and do things way too much. I'm like that with everything. Don't know if it's an autistic thing or not.