To ALL fellow MALE members

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Imagination can be endearing, can't it?

I'm not superficial, I just have an eye and ear for what makes a good someone. I'm sure alot of those in the Asperger's spectrum feel like this. I just think when I'm asked if I'd marry anyone, I decide she'd have to be someone extraordinary. She'd have to have hair like those animated heroines in movies; hair looking like one big blade shaded black. I'd like black straight hair because it would suit someone who'd shift from glamour-girl/tea-party-enthusiast to lawyer and back. Speaking of lawyer, that was inspired by my sources about She-Hulk online. Those sources (among other things) inspired me about muscles too. My special someone would have to be strong like either She-ra (He-Man's Twin sister), She-Hulk, Wonder Woman or Pippi Longstocking. The best description of her would be A: a black-haired/brown-eyed version of She-Ra with the law intellect of She-Hulk, Jodi Benson's voice and the spirit of fun of both Pippi and the young witch Ashley (from episode 11 of Juniper Lee). or B: an adult version of Princess/Cindy Collins from ZOOM (featuring Tim Allen) with the appearance of Usula in her "Vanessa" disguise in Disney's THE LITTLE MERMAID, brown eyes shaped like She-Ra's friend Princess Glimmer, Jodi Benson's voice and the law intellect of She-Hulk. The shortest description, however, is a Caucasian, black-haired and brown-eyed femme fatale/lawyer/bodyguard combo!

LoL

...you have interesting tastes...

For me to marry someone, yes they would have to be special. And while I often fantasize about this perfect person, I wouldn't look for specifics. Just that, somehow, she is truly special to me.

So why is this to ALL fellow MALE members?

Yaaa....um...are you looking for Ms. September of '89 or something, cause seriously dude- yer lookin 'for a FANTASY chick that you'd find in Playboys and Porno flicks.

My girlfriend is very special to me- first off, she loves me for ME, and I love her just the way she is too. One thing you have to remember- you have AS...that's, I hate to say it, gonna turn off the majority of people; truth be told, that's not really a bad thing, but it will do that- which includes most of those fantasy women.

See, most of those "smokin' hot babes" are, as my friend calls them, "beautiful trash bags"- basically, they're hot on the outside, but totally ugly on the inside. And even those that aren't, most of 'em- understand- will never appreciate a guy like you. Reason being- they've had life WAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYY too good and too easy; they can't see past your AS, and never will- and they're not even worth a second look. And chances are- they're probably too insecure to go after you, because of what everyone will think of THEM- remember that( see, doesn't it feel good NOW to have AS? You just don't care what other people think, cause no one has ever thought much good of you, so you don't care now )

It's that girl that loves you regardless of your AS that matters. My girlfriend was born pre-mature and her bones/muscles were very brittle because of it. They've strengthened dramatically over time. You can sorta even tell she was born a bit premature- she looks a little young for her age; she's almost 24, and looks a LITTLE bit younger. But that's ok- she's beautiful on the inside AND on the outside, she's got the voice of a heavenly angel, and a very sexy, bubbly personality.

She also told me she's NEVER found me annoying, and although I can tend to go on about subjects no one cares about, she finds it to be an interesting different perspective, and actually finds it quite enjoyable to hear. She doesn't care about how focused I am on my interests, because she knows I'm also trying to use those interests for financial gain- as in turn them into a career. She also doesn't mind it because she knows how much I love them, and knows that I make plenty of time for her too, because I love her. She understand right now, I'm REALLY strapped financially because of all the bills I have to pay, and is totally understanding about it. And pretty much everything she ever wanted in a guy, apparently, she's getting with me.

OH yeah, did I mention- she also had some REALLY bad experiences with other guys, so she's definitely learned not to take good things for granted. She's told me I'm the best thing that's ever happened to her, and that I'm so wonderful to her, it almost makes her want to cry- and she blushes a lot over it too.

Her parents and friends like me too!


So don't waste yer time going after those inner-ugly Prima Donnas, and all the other "smokin' hot" babes who are pathetic on the inside- go after someone who'll love you for you. Believe me- you WILL feel like a million bucks when you find the right one.

And lemme tell ya- I'm almost 26 years old, and despite not being filthy rich( yet), I now have everything in life I ever wanted. DEAD serious

meanwhile, back in the real world...

This thread is directed at men, so I am morally obliged to reply for the sake of being contrary and obnoxious.

I only have eyes for the guy in my avatar.

But you have to ask yourself... WWJD?

In my case, it's What Would Johnny Do...

Get nervous, crap himself. Try to kill you so nobody finds out, but mess it up somehow.

Nah... you are mixing up the Meanwhiles with the Johnny stories. Nny is completely continent.

Fair enough. Never been a big reader, just flicked through a couple that a friend brought to college one day on the grounds that he thought it was me in comic book form. I disagreed.

Hmm... pity.

Is meanwhiles the series with that goth chick who's Johnny's girlfriend or something? Cause that popped into my mind before but I couldn't remember where from, I'm almost sure it wasn't from jthm.

btw, I think you mean competent. Continent means he doesn't s**t himself.

Not in my mind. I like to think that I'm a healthier person now I'm past the days when I could produce half a dozen knives from thin air and proceed to chase someone around the college cafeteria trying to tear them a new mouth.

I'm totally aware of that! I'm not superficial! I'm just so detail-oriented, I'd think "It takes a ton to make in be in love". Besides, I'm not looking for anybody, I just keep getting an idea right and left. It's not the first; I thought of an Adventure/Fantasy/musical movie since the summer of 1995 and then recently, said ideal woman is the lead of another I came up with.

Isn't that just another prejudice?

I know that you know more on this subject that i do , but is it really fair to judge these women based on their good looks? You tell us not to let the outside judge our opinions about people, but after all you do the same thing. Can't we all just be non-biased, understanding?

On topic,
I suspect that what kind of people you meet depends very much on which context you meet them in. For example, in school i've met (just met, not even acquaintances) girls of my own age that studies Nature Science, do well in school, seems to be smart and understanding. Most of them are good-looking IMHO, but that doesn't mean i think what you wrote would apply to them.

If i on the other hand went to a club, you are probably right. (I won't go there - i would feel terribly uncomfortable and wouldn't make any contact with anyone, just stare on the floor or some other dead object. )

But what do i know about things like this...