Do you have a set place where you put all the stuff you need for the day?
We've found having a drawer with our keys/bag/wallet/mp3player ipod thingy/rings(Macbeth has to wear them out or he feels wrong, me too but they're next to my bed) helps. We go to that drawer when we are going to work or going to the shops and it's all there.
We also have a dry-wipe weekly planner board, but it's too small to really pay attention to. We need one like in Snow Cake (can't find a picture of the one in the film but here's a good example):
I want to put it up in the hall, next to the stairs and near the door so I see it when I come downstairs in the morning, and when I'm leaving the house to remind me again.
Also, it's handy to set yourself tasks and reward yourself. For instance, if I'm not working, I make myself go do the washing up, or dry some clothes before turning on the TV for my favourite programme. If I have finished the task I set myself, I enjoy it all the more.
I also have a year planner in the form of a book, where I have put in all important birthdays (I know them anyway but never know what day it is today, so it works if I check it every week or so), and certain events.
I use my phone to let me know when I have work (set for an hour before, just in case I've forgotten, that way I have 30 minutes to get ready), and appointments at places or with ppl. I know you do that too, but what if your phone runs out of battery? What if you forgot to charge it? This is where the drawer and the weekly wall chart come in handy.
Hope this helps.. think about it though - you're only one person with ED.. there's two of us in one house! Gets extremely messy sometimes!
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