I DON'T WANT CHILDREN!! !

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That woman has issues!

It does seem as if you go out of your way to make a point about such things. Unless this is your focus, I do not understand. I make many decisions I do not wish to flaunt, nor use to deride others. I looked at your facebook a bit, and you are leaning toward "rabid child-free" territory. That type of behaviour does a disservice not only to you, but to those who want others to see it's a valid life choice. It's fine not wanting children, nor really liking them. It's when you go after "breeders" or bait people into such things that it becomes sad and a quest for attention.

I know that my CF friends are annoyed by things like this. It's the type of thin that gets people riled up into judgment. I prefer that those who are so passionate about children think logically, and see that you're not out to put them down, and they may return the favor.

In short, I just do not understand shouting such a thing loudly, and in a way you know will anger people.

Be happy with your decision, and stick to your convictions, but it's best for all involved if you don't such a show of it.

Is "WAAAARRRGH! I don't want any children! And this b____ won't stop flaming me on Facebook!" all you post about on here?

If you notice if happen to read the comments it seems like she's putting down people ASD, but yet she claims she's trying to help me, I thought I was crazy, but I think I met someone crazier.

It doesn't matter what I say she'll just continue, so now I guess she's entertainment, it's amazing how people get all worked up about what people post up online.

Well I'll tell you if any 'interesting' comments come up, I already had this kid from my town curse me out, because I don't like(not hate) children. Hey children aren't for EVERYONE!! ! Especially someone with sensitive hearing.

i am of the opinion that if there is significant doubt in your mind about whether or not you want or, more importantly, can provide for a child for and support that child into adulthood then you should not have children. in saying that, i have known all my life that i do not want children.

a good friend and his wife have a bright and very cute ( kawaii !) 18 mth old that i have had seen grow from the age of about 1 week ... i see how much joy she brings and i know how much she is loved, all kids should know this sort of care and be able to grow in a positive environment... children are a privilege and not a right, give all that you can give and no less.

Where's the unsure option....I'd like to eventually get married or live with a guy, but am still unsure about the kid part.

I don't want kids because there is too much responsibillity and i would get stressed out too easily.

Why did the kid curse you out? It seems as if you go out of your way to make a point in an offensive manner. (member of STOP?.. doesn't sound like just making a decision to me).

I think cause and reaction is something we struggle with at times, but you're having it pointed out to you.

children are cute and I love children. As long as they are other People's children.

I'm not necessarily in favor of keeping quiet about your opinion just because it doesn't agree with the majority.

if everyone just chilled out in the face of a strong majority opinion, women wouldn't get to vote, dark-skinned citizens of the U.S. would be segregated, women could still be fired for getting pregnant, etc. etc.

some people just aren't aware that other options exist or might even be better, so if everyone shuts up so that society remains homogeneous, it will take longer to change for the better.