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06 Nov 2010, 3:36 pm

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DW, you seem like a really nice person, and from the stuff you say online, you seem pretty constant with your approach to situations and issues at hand.

So how's this?

I'll PM you the logins to all of my security feed cameras that are all over my house. You can view them, and then report back to the others if I am on the level or not.

I'm essentially opening my house to you.

That's a heck of a lot more than anyone else is offering as a means to identify who they are.

However, from the way ASS-P is acting, there's no way on earth I'm helping him anymore.

I don't need to take his BS. I offered help, and he countered with quoting me out of context in an effort to undermine my integrity - I'm not having that. If that's how he treats the people that offer to help him, I'd hate to see how he treats his enemies.


Um, I don't think that will be necessary. Well, unless our friend asks me to. But, you crack me up. I mean that in a good way. Like pulling up all the library hours in SF; I wouldn't have thought of that (but he is physically in SF right now or Berkeley per his profile? I haven't followed everything).

As for ASS-P, I wouldn't totally give up on him ... yet. If I try to put myself in his shoes, I realize I would have a hard time accepting the offer was sincere and jumping on it ... there are a few hurdles he's got to clear in his mind, and he hasn't been given much time. He's understandably suspicious, and I'm not sure if I've helped or hurt that with things I've said. Most of the time I should truly stay out of things, and on rare occasions it is good when I rush in, which I guess is why I still do it, but I never know until the story is over which one I had that time. Regardless, (sorry for throwing my own issues in there) I could have almost predicted some of his initial reactions, and I don't consider them conclusive - yet. If this idea would work, he would have to quickly change his whole mindset, and be willing to throw the biggest hail-Mary pass he's ever been asked to. You aren't afraid to throw those kinds of passes, and it's a big part of how you got to be where you are. He is afraid, and it's certainly a part of why he is where he is now. Life requires risks. Not utter foolishness, but definitely risks.


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06 Nov 2010, 3:43 pm

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DW_A_MOM, I've Pm'd you the links to my security cameras (all over my house).

I've set up a login for you and used an appropriate password.

Have a look around, see for yourself if I am on the up and level.

It goes without saying, however I'm going to say it anyway.

Please don't give out the links to anyone else.

I'll leave the logins for you to use for the next day or so, and then I'll delete the access.

Thanks.


I see the pm, but I'll wait on opening the pm or activating any of it. Lets see if it is necessary. I'm a little uncomfortable with the idea, to be honest! For now, kids need lunch.


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06 Nov 2010, 3:45 pm

Fixer girl i wouldnt even help ASS-P out, this guy doesnt want the help. he wants to complain!
He isnt intrested in helping himself. (his homeless topic has been going on for nearly damn near 2 years now) everyone has tried helping him. this isnt the red cross's website! its a freaking board for autism

And i'm almost tempted to act homeless just so i can come live at your house, you rule! :pig:
Say wanna adopt a attractive 30 year old aspergers dude? :wink:

my family sucks. :(


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06 Nov 2010, 3:54 pm

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Fixer girl i wouldnt even help ASS-P out, this guy doesnt want the help. he wants to complain!
He isnt intrested in helping himself. (his homeless topic has been going on for nearly damn near 2 years now) everyone has tried helping him. this isnt the red cross's website! its a freaking board for autism

And i'm almost tempted to act homeless just so i can come live at your house, you rule! :pig:
Say wanna adopt a attractive 30 year old aspergers dude? :wink:

my family sucks. :(


lol

My husband might have an issue with me adopting 30 year old aspies - not because you're aspie!

That's funny though! Thank you, you made me laugh.



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06 Nov 2010, 4:01 pm

I understand, i was just trying to be funny. :geek:

I know one thing, if someone was offering me a nice warm place to sleep and to take care of my nasty ass foot i'd grow wings and fly there.

dont waste your time on the guy.


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06 Nov 2010, 4:04 pm

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Fixer_Girl wrote:

DW, you seem like a really nice person, and from the stuff you say online, you seem pretty constant with your approach to situations and issues at hand.

So how's this?

I'll PM you the logins to all of my security feed cameras that are all over my house. You can view them, and then report back to the others if I am on the level or not.

I'm essentially opening my house to you.

That's a heck of a lot more than anyone else is offering as a means to identify who they are.

However, from the way ASS-P is acting, there's no way on earth I'm helping him anymore.

I don't need to take his BS. I offered help, and he countered with quoting me out of context in an effort to undermine my integrity - I'm not having that. If that's how he treats the people that offer to help him, I'd hate to see how he treats his enemies.


Um, I don't think that will be necessary. Well, unless our friend asks me to. But, you crack me up. I mean that in a good way. Like pulling up all the library hours in SF; I wouldn't have thought of that (but he is physically in SF right now or Berkeley per his profile? I haven't followed everything).

As for ASS-P, I wouldn't totally give up on him ... yet. If I try to put myself in his shoes, I realize I would have a hard time accepting the offer was sincere and jumping on it ... there are a few hurdles he's got to clear in his mind, and he hasn't been given much time. He's understandably suspicious, and I'm not sure if I've helped or hurt that with things I've said. Most of the time I should truly stay out of things, and on rare occasions it is good when I rush in, which I guess is why I still do it, but I never know until the story is over which one I had that time. Regardless, (sorry for throwing my own issues in there) I could have almost predicted some of his initial reactions, and I don't consider them conclusive - yet. If this idea would work, he would have to quickly change his whole mindset, and be willing to throw the biggest hail-Mary pass he's ever been asked to. You aren't afraid to throw those kinds of passes, and it's a big part of how you got to be where you are. He is afraid, and it's certainly a part of why he is where he is now. Life requires risks. Not utter foolishness, but definitely risks.


This is where you are awesome, you are always ready to give people a second chance. It's something about you that I really admire.

I'm not that patient though. If it's broken, then let's fix it. But he doesn't seem to want the help. He seems to just want to complain all of the time and act like some kind of drama queen. As I said before, his issues are nothing to do with me.

The facts are (if he's been telling any form of truth) that he is homeless, he is diabetic and he has NOTHING. What on earth would he have lost? There was no risk.

If he is wondering if I am some kind of freak that's going to chop him up in his sleep - well, the next time he sleeps under a bridge or something surrounded by a hundred drug crazed drunks, he should ask himself "Is this safe?"

From the way he turned me down, I think that he's full of poop.

I didn't just offer him a little money. I was offering to spend THOUSANDS on him and go WAY out of my daily routine to help him. I was trying to give him the life he was blabbing on about not having - but he doesn't want it.

What he wants is for people to send him 'western union' checks that can't be traced. What he wants is for us Aspies to fall over ourselves trying to find a solution to his issues. He bats down every angle and only wants to hear one thing "How about I send you some money?"

He's done, and I called him on it. Where can he go from here?



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06 Nov 2010, 5:27 pm

I have a question.

ASS-P, I'm going to throw out a few details, and you tell me when it starts getting warm in here, ok?

415-273-4***
01/26/1960

Would you like me to go on?

Shall I call the police and let them know what you've been up to? I think you'll find that's a parole violation and I hear that there's a three strikes law in CA.



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06 Nov 2010, 5:42 pm

Nothing?

Should I mention 'Affinity'?

How far would you like me to go buddy?

Frankly, the fact that you don't just have a home, that you have a home in one of the most expensive locations in America, makes me sick.

You get your kicks by playing on the kindness of aspies? Really?

Maybe I should just take what I know to the press and let them pull you apart on TV - sicko gets kicks stealing from autistics!



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06 Nov 2010, 5:51 pm

wait a minute ass-p has a home? i thought he was homeless!
And yes, it is a sick thing to take atvantage of anyone but especially a bunch of disabled people.

Frankly i dont think this guy cares, i mean his typing on here seems to clean up well nice when he's trying to convince us he doesnt need any help, and when hes looking for attention makes about as much sence as a elephant with a keyboard. i mean really! :roll:


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06 Nov 2010, 5:58 pm

Not only does Walter Lilly have a home, but Walter is a stand up member of society who writes into the local press, has several addresses under his name and is an avid reader of obscure comics - and I mean avid.

Now, I will say that not all of what I found on Walter was my own work - I was helped (largely) by another member on here, but I won't say who they are, for that would be me betraying a trust.

Thank you. Thank you for protecting me and my family from the likes of Walter Lilly.

Walter, would you like me to call and congratulate you 'recording the conversation' on your lovely scum sucking pitiful behavior.

There isn't a word for people like you Walter, there simply isn't an expression for how low and inhuman you actually are.



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06 Nov 2010, 6:01 pm

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...If you're going to declare something closed based upon one comment , I think that that is a sign that it wasn't a very serious offer .
Your " blow/splatter "* threat , as it happens , was not just directed at prospective interference with your children , but at prspective other things as well , speaking of " quoting people out of context " .
I would not want to do any of the " lesser " bad things that the " splatter " comment was stated as an answer to , should such things happen , let alone interference...Again , you got rather " firey " , did use this language apart frrom interference , and now have racted immediately emotionally to my saying something - which was not a rejection - instantly !
To put it mildly , our temperments(Sp??) appear to not match !


This is a good example of him changing his typing on here, while its still hard to read and follow it makes alot more sence than almost anything else his written on here

sure sign of a scammer i think


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06 Nov 2010, 6:08 pm

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Not only does Walter Lilly have a home, but Walter is a stand up member of society who writes into the local press, has several addresses under his name and is an avid reader of obscure comics - and I mean avid.

Now, I will say that not all of what I found on Walter was my own work - I was helped (largely) by another member on here, but I won't say who they are, for that would be me betraying a trust.

Thank you. Thank you for protecting me and my family from the likes of Walter Lilly.

Walter, would you like me to call and congratulate you 'recording the conversation' on your lovely scum sucking pitiful behavior.

There isn't a word for people like you Walter, there simply isn't an expression for how low and inhuman you actually are.
Cant say that I'm shocked!

Wow. now i'm mad :x


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06 Nov 2010, 6:09 pm

Fixer_Girl wrote:
Not only does Walter Lilly have a home, but Walter is a stand up member of society who writes into the local press, has several addresses under his name and is an avid reader of obscure comics - and I mean avid.

Now, I will say that not all of what I found on Walter was my own work - I was helped (largely) by another member on here, but I won't say who they are, for that would be me betraying a trust.

Thank you. Thank you for protecting me and my family from the likes of Walter Lilly.

Walter, would you like me to call and congratulate you 'recording the conversation' on your lovely scum sucking pitiful behavior.

There isn't a word for people like you Walter, there simply isn't an expression for how low and inhuman you actually are.




Wow, what a total f*****g creep.


No, go all out on this guy. Get him in trouble with the cops. Do everything possible within your power.


This is just f*****g wrong.



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06 Nov 2010, 6:09 pm

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I have a question.

ASS-P, I'm going to throw out a few details, and you tell me when it starts getting warm in here, ok?

415-273-4***
01/26/1960

Would you like me to go on?

Shall I call the police and let them know what you've been up to? I think you'll find that's a parole violation and I hear that there's a three strikes law in CA.


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Nothing?

Should I mention 'Affinity'?

How far would you like me to go buddy?

Frankly, the fact that you don't just have a home, that you have a home in one of the most expensive locations in America, makes me sick.

You get your kicks by playing on the kindness of aspies? Really?

Maybe I should just take what I know to the press and let them pull you apart on TV - sicko gets kicks stealing from autistics!


Oh, my.

I seem to have been one of the first, and one of the most vocal, in advocating that ASS-P not be harrassed based on suspicion without evidence.

Please allow me to be the first to encourage you, if you do indeed have evidence of him running an Affinity scam (and it certainly appears that you do), to submit that evidence to the proper authorities?



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06 Nov 2010, 6:09 pm

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Not only does Walter Lilly have a home, but Walter is a stand up member of society who writes into the local press, has several addresses under his name and is an avid reader of obscure comics - and I mean avid.

Now, I will say that not all of what I found on Walter was my own work - I was helped (largely) by another member on here, but I won't say who they are, for that would be me betraying a trust.

Thank you. Thank you for protecting me and my family from the likes of Walter Lilly.

Walter, would you like me to call and congratulate you 'recording the conversation' on your lovely scum sucking pitiful behavior.

There isn't a word for people like you Walter, there simply isn't an expression for how low and inhuman you actually are.
Cant say that I'm shocked!

Wow. now i'm mad :x



I owe you an apology. You called it out better than me...



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06 Nov 2010, 6:14 pm

ASS-P...if I were in your shoes, I can promise you I wouldn't throw away Fixer Girl's phenomenal offer in the hasty manner which you appear to be doing. This is really could be your chance of lifetime. In all reality, what do you possibly have to lose at this point? What is the worst that can happen? Even if someone ( I'm NOT saying I have the slightest suspicion that Fixer Girl is not on the up and up here. Still....you never can be 100%CERTAIN of anyone's intentions can you? Especially when it comes to people you've only met from the internet. Nonetheless.....there are NO guarantees in life save one and you're intelligent enough to know what that is. Sometimes you just have to take a risk and i'm EXTREMELY confident you have nothing to lose here and EVERYTHING to gain. ) intended to harm you in some way, I doubt anyone would be dumb enough to do so at this point. After all....at this juncture....we are talking about someone who made this offer to you on a public internet forum. Everyone knows about it.....everyone pretty much knows who made the offer to you. Fixer Girl has said she would offer (to you and others in this thread) any and all proof that she's on the up and up save her blood type. In other words.....who do you think the main suspect would be if any harm came to you? I'm sure other members would like to hear from you and Fixer Girl from time to time in the interest of seeing how you're getting along. If you accepted her offer and all commucations from you or her suddenly cease, well, that would raise a red flag for all of us right there. For the love of Pete man.....the women is willing send links to the security cameras in her house to another veteran and respected member!! ! What more do you need in order to feel secure bubba? If you're still concerned.....then I suggest you make a promise (providing you take this offer and Fixer Girl comes to pick you up) to me and/or other members here that you'll contact us once a month or so to let us know how you're getting along. Maybe you can just open an email account that ONLY YOU and me/other members know so that we KNOW it's you contacting us. Now you really have no excuse for not taking Fixer Girl up on her magnificent offer. If for some reason you just don't wish to...that is your choice of course and no one will condemn for it if you just wish to continue living as you have been living. Still.....if you're happy living the way you're living....you sure could've fooled me my friend.

So....either take her up on this offer or say no thanks already. If you do the latter....that's fine. Just keep in mind that no one will want to here any further complaints from you about how bad you have it. That would include myself at this point and i've been one of the few who hasn't become frustrated with you yet. I can assure this is a once-in-a-lifetime chance and you will likely never again receive an opportunity that's even remotely equal to this one. Do you think you're going to win the lottery or something? You seem rational enough and I can't imagine you'd be THAT self-deceitful. 8O You likely don't even play the damn lottery for want of the funds to buy tickets. For the love of god man.....all your life-long dreams could come true here!! ! Please do yourself a favor and don't even think about this anymore. Just graciously accept her offer and do your best to make her glad she extended it. Rise up and fight tooth and nail for your dreams ASS-P while you still have the chance!! ! You still could have 30-50 years ahead of you if you get it together and start taking care of yourself. Fixer girl is offering to take care of you to a great and unparalleled extent. Ultimately however......irrespective of whether we humans have free will or not.......you must solve your own problems because I assure you, no one else will. :) Not even Fixer Girl can hold your hand, wave a magick wand and compel you to study for exams, eat right, get a job, etc......