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03 May 2007, 1:56 pm

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She can't PM any women after this thread because they will all think they are IT. :lol:

I know, I'm only going to be able to PM men from now on.

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03 May 2007, 1:56 pm

well...what's wrong with a little crush all they could say is they're straight

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03 May 2007, 1:57 pm

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well...what's wrong with a little crush all they could say is they're straight

But then I'd never talk to them ever again because I'd feel stupid.
Then I'd get even more depressed.

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03 May 2007, 1:58 pm

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Sopho_Soph wrote:

Yeah that's why I don't want to say anything.

well you should take a risk

what's the worst that could happen?

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03 May 2007, 1:59 pm

Sopho_Soph wrote:

SeriousGirl wrote:

She can't PM any women after this thread because they will all think they are IT. :lol:

I know, I'm only going to be able to PM men from now on.

Hahaha!

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03 May 2007, 2:00 pm

well you gotta decide what you want-to live witht eh question what if-or take a chance and answer a nagging question-what if she says she likes you back-it's a better chance then just sitting on your hands...
don't spend your life asking what if

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03 May 2007, 2:02 pm

But I'm 99.9 recurring per cent sure she doesn't like me back. So there isn't much of a What If...

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03 May 2007, 2:03 pm

LOl serious girl

Nobody male or female has ever had a crush on me that's why I know Its not me . I dont have a clue who it is , if I was a good aspie i'd prolly be trawling the posts trying to find out , but im a bad aspie so i'm just sat here lazy waiting to find out from Sopho.

I am so hoping the person comes forward and says* its me and I love you too Sopho *
that would make my day I think , I've done nothing all day apart from being sat here feeling miserable so something really happy would be good to see.

maybe I should get a job in a dating agency

bb natty

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03 May 2007, 2:04 pm

how do you know-tell me how

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03 May 2007, 2:06 pm

Sopho_Soph wrote:

But I'm 99.9 recurring per cent sure she doesn't like me back. So there isn't much of a What If...

Lots of posts? If she's straight then I suppose she wouldn't. As a friend maybe.

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03 May 2007, 2:08 pm

ride it out, and please don't leave.

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03 May 2007, 2:09 pm

I think the best thing is not to worry and just let it take its course. I think the thing about this kind of fixation is (excuse the twee wording) the "X" factor. A person or an identity online is quite vague so there is plenty of room to kind of project and invent your own narrative and so they become quite heroic and fantastic. So you're fixated partly by something that is your own invention/perception of that online person. Don't worry it will fade, think of them doing something negative perhaps that might put weedkiller on the fixation! I remember ages ago there were a few individuals I thought were very witty and engaging and I got addicted to posting for a bi and reading their posts. I'm sure it happens to most WP members.

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03 May 2007, 2:10 pm

natty wrote:

that would be awesome, I hope that happens

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03 May 2007, 2:11 pm

I'm guessing this a crush? Like you admire her? I would just try to be her friend. Like you said she lives in a different country anyway.

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03 May 2007, 2:12 pm

nutbag wrote:

ride it, and please don't leave.

Fixed it for you.

(waits for the brickbats)

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03 May 2007, 2:13 pm

this happened to an online pal of mine...and the girl likes him back-whats even more crazy is he's actually gonna go meet her-so nothing is impossible

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