Asperger's Syndrome - No Sense of Humor

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11 Aug 2010, 3:25 am

just-lou wrote:
I agree. I think aspie humour can often be offbeat, slightly wry or hard for other people to grasp, but it's there. I have a rather dry, dark sense of humour, so light-hearted misfortune at others' expense sure, but I wouldn't laugh if someone was genuinely hurt as I find that disrespectful.


I agree. I've read a lot of good jokes here and I actually know many people who are supposed to have "no sense of humour" but are actually pretty funny. It's just that everyone has a different kind of humour. My brother laughs at things I don't understand or find stupid, my parents finds videos about people falling into the water funny and I don't, most people don't laugh at my jokes even among my family, but some still think I have a great sense of humour. It's just... darker, perhaps childish (though I never understood what was so funny with some childish jokes) and somewhat witty. I like to make jokes about things I've learnt in class or during a serious debate and I'm pretty good at making puns (though, for some reasons, I didn't understand most of the puns I've heard until I was 13-14 and still don't get some puns), there are just a different kind of pun.
I also enjoy quoting TV shows or movies during a conversation, some quotes are pretty funny.

By the way, as TV Tropes says, it's just a stereotype.

Everyone who has a different sense of humour would be said to have no sense of humour at all. Be them aspies or not.



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11 Aug 2010, 3:31 am

Weapons of Choice video......now THAT is comedy , Walken is such a bizarre sight :lol: :lol:

Balki / Well of course NOT , dont be raaaaa-diculous !

Larry / I never thought I would say this but could you talk the way you normally do ?

Larry.......How many rivers have you crossed ?
Balki........Cousin !
Larry........How many rivers have you crossed , IN America ?
Balki.......None
Larry......As in zero , you have not crossed any rivers in America ?

:lol:



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11 Aug 2010, 3:36 am

collectoritis wrote:
Weapons of Choice video......now THAT is comedy , Walken is such a bizarre sight :lol: :lol:


i don't know why but whenever i see your username it always makes me think of the word "clitoris" :? :lol:


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11 Aug 2010, 5:04 am

Hawkeye Pierce is my hero. I crack witty and wise daily to keep myself laughing. If I wasn't laughing, I'd be screaming.


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11 Aug 2010, 5:11 am

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Absolutely true. My parents always tell me I have no sense of "HA-HA". Thats how they put it. I have trouble with jokes. I heard a blonde joke once, and I seriously asked the person who told it, if it really is true that blondes eliminate mistakes on a computer screen by using liquid paper. I just had this image in my mind of someone applying liquid paper onto the screen, and thought how absurd that would be. It can be that bad with me. I miss the meaning of many jokes.


I don't consider memorized Q&A's the best kind of jokes, mainly because I can't remember them. Now way can I retell the long narrative jokes that always seem to involve three tries. Instead, I improvise, constantly, with everyone and everything around me.

For example, at a party Saturday, I heard people talking about a house in town for sale. The pictures advertising it clearly showed that it was in obvious need of a new roof. Someone asked, "How do they expect to sell a house showing its roof like that?"

I replied, "That's what Photoshop is for."

Got more laughs than I expected.


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11 Aug 2010, 5:33 am

I have a sense of humour. It's just not the racy type, that most people, 20 and older have. I do have a sense of humour, though.


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11 Aug 2010, 5:48 am

Wilson: You faked... cancer?
House: It was an outpatient procedure. I was curious.
Wilson: Are you curious about... heroin?
House: Not since last year's Christmas party.

And that typical Wilson "I can't believe it" look.

It's the best!

And yea, I have a sense of humor.



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11 Aug 2010, 6:18 am

False. I'm a textbook case of Asperger's and my mom always tells me I have a great sense of humor.



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11 Aug 2010, 7:15 am

i have no sense of humor. i see things that make me laugh, but no one else understands why i laugh ,and my reactions to what makes me laugh are not neurologically describable as "humorous" in the sense that i have learned that people generally experience.

i can laugh my brains out in a sitting of people who are all stoney faced and concerned as to whether i may be having a breakdown, and on the other hand, i remain unaffected in any way in a gathering of people who are all laughing themselves to tears.

i am not them an they are not me and our senses of humor are on each side of the sea.
it is like i am on the shore on the other side of a gulf that is between me and everyone else.

i care not to try to explain why i am laughing. it is my own private hilarity that wriggles and shakes my body in uncontrolled delirium of mirth.

if someone else suddenly understood, then it would probably dampen my euphoria because i would think "god! now i have a passenger!".

i can not make sharp turns in my mind with cargo aboard.



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11 Aug 2010, 7:18 am

I may have said this before (10 pages I'm not rechecking).

I think the claim of no sense of humor with AS is that we typically run afoul of a lot of "social humor" that we cannot process.

Someone says something in a threatening tone which is somehow supposed to be a joke. If we don't know the person well enough, we might respond as if it's a real threat. This is tricky because I know some people will make "veiled threats" so they can defend their statement by claiming they were only joking.

Likewise, we might try to mimic such humor only to come across as rude and threatening.

We have a sense of humor, but it's not very effective in this area, and so we might come across to people as not having a "sense of humor" because we don't get their jokes.



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11 Aug 2010, 7:28 am

zer0netgain wrote:
I may have said this before (10 pages I'm not rechecking).

I think the claim of no sense of humor with AS is that we typically run afoul of a lot of "social humor" that we cannot process.

Someone says something in a threatening tone which is somehow supposed to be a joke. If we don't know the person well enough, we might respond as if it's a real threat. This is tricky because I know some people will make "veiled threats" so they can defend their statement by claiming they were only joking.

Likewise, we might try to mimic such humor only to come across as rude and threatening.

We have a sense of humor, but it's not very effective in this area, and so we might come across to people as not having a "sense of humor" because we don't get their jokes.


Even when we know the person actually. I've never understood this kinf of humour and it's real problem in society. It's even worse when you try to use this kind of humour as you said. :lol:

I'm glad I'm not the only one who takes this kind of humour as a threat, even from my family members.

From what my brother said (he enjoys using this kind of humour on me), people love using this kind of humour on someone who don't understand it because it's "even funnier when it makes you angry". :roll:

I think it's just mean.



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11 Aug 2010, 10:03 pm

I'd say false. Hell, I often attribute my sense of humor being the ONLY thing that kept me sane during my entire run from K to 12.

As for my style, I'd say I was more of the zany type as a child/tween, but upon entering adulthood, I feel as though I've adopted my maternal grandfather's dry humor. Prime example of that: once, during an ITV class I was taking with a group of fellow college students, the feed got disconnected and we got the test pattern and 'doooooooo' noise. I said out loud, 'Gee, it's gonna be one of those days', and the class found it hilarious for some reason. :lol:

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14 Oct 2010, 1:15 am

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I find the statement: ‘No sense of humour’ very vague.

What kind of humour is meant here?

There are many different kinds of humour.


There is the stand up, ‘in your face’ comedy that’s dry, acerbic satire. This is done for display purposes. This kind of humour aggressively challenges social norms and taboos, sometimes using bawdy jokes and profane language to provoke a reaction.

Then there’s ‘being good humoured’ which means getting on with people and sharing ‘in-jokes’. This is a more interactive and social kind of humour. The kind of humour that guests would share during chit-chat at a party to strengthen their rapports with each other. There is gentle teasing that isn’t meant to mean any real harm.

These two humours can grade into each other.


I think that a certain degree of detachment from the social situation is required to do dry satire. It’s an observational kind of humour. Someone observes society from a distance and comments on it. It’s also deeply perceptive.

An AS person would have the detachment required to do satire, if they have just enough social awareness to make it work. I believe that an AS person could use self-deprecating humour to cover their faux pas as a kind of social defence mechanism. People like others that can make them laugh, so what was a blunder can be turned into a strong point. Inadvertent bluntness can also be interpreted as dry humour in some situations.

I’ve often done satire without realising that I’m doing it. People have said how funny and observant I’ve been when I didn’t intend to be funny at all. I was just saying what I felt about a situation. Perhaps what I say is unexpected and that’s why people laugh. People have laughed with me not at me, because they’ve said so afterwards.

Once you realise that other people find you funny, I think that you can develop that, if you have enough very basic social awareness to do so.


I agree with everything here....

I'm very satirical.. and some of my friends have grown weary off it. Like they take me as a serious person when I'm not. I think I've lost hope in those friends....



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14 Oct 2010, 6:09 am

I have an decent sense of humor, but it took a long time to develop.



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14 Oct 2010, 9:58 am

Generally, I would say that it depends of the person because not all autistic person are the same. Beside this, I don't have a "good" sense of humor because I don't understand why something is funny. However, some words or expression make me smile when nobody find them funny...



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14 Oct 2010, 12:13 pm

Some aspies have no humour, but that amounts for some NT's as well (especially if they are members of organisations with many letters). It is more usual with aspies though that they have unusual and inappropriate humour which is rather disgusting people than making them happy, like joking about rape, genocide, suicide, cancer and other "heavy" topics. It seems to be an "aspie male" thing to try to cherish in political incorrectness, thinking that racist slurs or genital references are funny just because they are shocking to society.

Not all aspie males are like that, but it's a noticeable minority.

I don't know if I have any humour. I could find outrageousness funny.